What´s a bigger lie: infidelity or keeping living with someone you are not in love anymore??

Answer 1

to keep living with someone that you are not in love with.

Answer 2

equally wrong. both the act of infidelity and the remaining in a loveless relationship are both lies. one is a lie to your self the other a lie to the partner and back again.

best to leave the living together relationship before embarking on a stray outside the marriage/relationship bed.

Answer 3

Infidelity is the bigger lie to me because if you do that then you also don't love that person either.

Answer 4

infidelity.. why? because u took a vow to love your spouse , good times and bad, to forsake all others.. and to be with them till death do u part.. sorry but vows are to be lived by every day not just when its convient to u.. and if u dont love them anymore maybe u should of waited till u were mature enough to handle the responsibility of making such a promise to someone.. how about trying to be a man and stepping up to the plate and living by ur word instead of following the brain in ur pants..

Answer 5

Infidelity - you lie to the other half
Living with with somebody you no longer love - you are lying to them, and yourself, it could be seen as using them. Both are wrong and things need to be dealt with as opposed to sweeping things under the carpet. This doesn't go away, but gets worse as time goes by.

Answer 6

Not being truely in love with someone is just like cheating on them- because, really, you're cheating them out of a lot. You take precious time from them while you lie through your teeth about your "love", you take time acting as their soulmate when there's a chance that someone else is their real life mate. By cheating on them you prove you have no love for them because the lack of it made you leave them for this other person. Not loving them and cheating on them go hand in hand, you shouldn't do either- both are really big lies.

Answer 7

Infidelity, that has no excuse. But sometimes you have to live with people you don't necessarily love, like because you cant hurt the children, or if you don't believe divorce is right, or even if you just don't want to hurt them.

Answer 8

who says they are lies, who made the rules, we all live our own lives and if you can live with what you are doing then what is the problem, but bear in mind if you did not have someone at home would the other person be such an attraction, part of the thrill is the cloak and dagger meetings, but it can be very difficult to know your own mind at times like this what used to be normal no longer seems that way, you used to think you were sane, but now you are no longer sure, but it will get easier to make a choice eventually, believe me

Answer 9

This is an interesting question. Personally, I think if you cheat on someone then you can't love them. So, you can live with someone you don't love. I don't know which is worse, but either way the person is weak.

Answer 10

Heckuva choice. How about this one? Dump the extracurricular one and go to counseling so you can make sure you aren't just leaving for newer, greener pastures. If you aren't married, then go, no one needs a cheater, and while you may pretty it up, thats what you are. The biggest lie is one you never mention, its the one you tell yourself.

Answer 11

Both are lying...if you don't tell your partner about your indicretions it's lying by omission. If you keep on living with someone you don't love your'e lying to yourself. I would say living with someone you don't love anymore is the bigger lie.