It seems to me that women in general are more accepting of people who don't fit the "norm" of society. I believe straight men find it hard to accept a gay man because it does not benefit them. Two lesbian or bisexual girls is considered hot; every man's fantasy. Do you agree or disagree?
2007-01-16 05:07:31 · 18 answers · asked by coolhonorstudent 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's the thought that she safe around a gay man. Str8 men are afraid that the gay guy is thinking about them. The fact is that most Str8 men are uncomfortable with the idea of accepting a gay man thinking it would make them less dominate and masculine. Its really a psychosis of the male mind.
2007-01-16 14:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by Benjisan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many men are afraid to confront their own feeling of attraction towards other men. A recent study passed out a questionaire that determined a mans homophobia. After the questionionaire was collected the men had a measurement tool attaced to their penis. This tool measured blood flow, skin respinse as well as growth. Sexual act between men were then shown to the participants the results were that the men that tested least homophobic were less likely to respond in a manner that suggested sexual excitement, their were some that were excited but very few. HOWEVER ALL the men who were highly homophobic responded with increase sexual response to the gay images.
2007-01-16 22:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by fl_lopez 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont agree with the every man's fantasy part of your question because its not my fantasy to see to women kissing intimately. Been there done that.
I think its because woman are less prejudice and I can safely assume that 90%+ of all women in the us, canada, and uk know someone in their life who is gay. Straight men prefer not know and try not to get personal with people they work with or are even friends with.
Example Jim and Bob goe to the bar for drinks after work. Jim anounces to Bob hes getting divorse. Bob, wow im sorry. End of conversation new topic. Bob doesnt care about the why because its to personal and a not masculine trait.
2007-01-16 14:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree. Women are better communicators, more socially conscious than men. Men are wired to act without thinking. So maybe women are more accepting of different relationships, while men are more likely to overreact to anything out of the norm.
It does seem hypocritical that men who are outraged at the whole idea of sex with another man get totally turned on over the idea of two women getting together. I really dug that scene in one of the "American Pie" movies when the two gals tried to get the guys to have sex with each other.
2007-01-16 13:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think some straight men, especially those with bi sexual tendencies, feel threatened by gay men, which is why they have a hard time accepting them.
Sex is a very powerful driving force in men and therefore if they are in a single sex environment ei prison, even straight men will indulge in homosexual relationship, it is a necessary release for some men. They do it by convinceing themselves their sexual partner is female. This ability however is something a lot of guys are uncomfortable facing in the outside world.
2007-01-16 13:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Gay men are not a threat to women. There is no chance a gay guy will rape a woman. Straight men however, is a different story. They can get raped and they are most likely afraid of liking it too much.
2007-01-16 13:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women are just more compassionate and they know that a gay man is not some drooling pervert that wants to have sex with them. Us gay guys see some things through the women's eyes and they appreciate that. We are just easier to talk to, than straight men. (Some)
2007-01-16 13:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea but Women always feel Men are only after one thing and thats to throw the leg.. Women dont feel threatened by Gay boys
2007-01-16 13:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Women generally are more accepting of others, whatever their differences are. I think that's because women are generally flexible. Men believe they are perfect and anyone who isn't like them is just wrong.
2007-01-16 13:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
one woman, nude and hot - makes man horny, right?
Two women, nude and possibly at it - make a man twice as horny. (because he imagines what he could do if he could get his hands on them...)
A man doesn't make a straight man horny at all.
Two men, possibly doing it with one another, make a straight man as un-horny as possible, i.e. repulsed.
I'm a woman and it's the same for me. I find the idea of two men together (of course with a prospect of me maybe having a chance) pretty damn hot.
The idea of two women together doesn't do anything for me, cause I really don't see myself joining them or sth. It boils down to what one desires.
2007-01-16 15:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Ymmo the Heathen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋