Am an arabic woman married to an american man & we love each other but he refuse to have kids from me. He already have 2 from his previous marraige, is this fare ?
2007-01-16 05:05:58 · 13 answers · asked by nile_leo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't discuss it before marriage, cause he said he wanted to have a family even his father keep asking him when you gonna have a baby & I keep saying I have to wait I didn' tell him that your son doesn't want children.
Am egyptain & he is american & I do really love him.
2007-01-16 18:12:15 · update #1
Well, the discussion of children should have come up before you got married. In this day and age, don't automatically assume that marriage + love = children.
2007-01-16 05:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be fare but this is some thing that you should have talked about before you said I do. It would be unfair to have kids if he doesn't want any more. Sorry I no that this isn't much help. Maybe he will change his mind. I am a God fearing women so I feel as if you have to stick by him. Kids or not..
I wish the best for the both of you.
2007-01-16 13:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have discussed this BEFORE you got married. If you want kids that badly you need to get a divorce and find a husband with the same wants and goals as you.
2007-01-16 13:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nunya 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is something that was probably discussed prior to your marriage. You are a step-mother in the US. Fair? Maybe not, but if he doesn't want anymore children, then don't push it!
2007-01-16 13:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As his wife you are an equal partner in this marriage. You need to ask yourself if this marriage is going to work if he feels this way. You love him but is this a sacrifice you are willing to take for his love?
2007-01-16 13:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by DramaQueen26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
N YOUR CASE NO , BUT IN THE CHILDRENS FROM THE PRVIOUS MARRIAGE YES, BECAUSE SOME KIDS THAT GO THROUGH DIVORCE USUALLY HAVE A DIFFICULT TIME GETTING USE TO U AND OTHER CHILDREN!
AND MAYBE JUST MAYBE THAT HUSBAN OF YOURS CARES ABOUT HIS KIDS AND MAYBE IN ABOUT A YEAR U COULD HAVE A CHILD!
2007-01-16 13:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by ~~~~~~~~~~~~~BLONDIE~~~~~~~~~~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing all the circumstances no one can answer that for you. Did you not communicate before marriage?
2007-01-16 13:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think its fair. But did you discuss this before you got married. He is probably scared. Talk to him about it.
2007-01-16 13:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by diana b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you guys talk about having children before you got married.If that's some thing you wanted and not him, you should found someone else.
2007-01-16 13:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that BEFORE you married him? If you did , then yes, it is fair.
2007-01-16 13:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋