not care about what people think.
Im tired of people judging me because I'm gay.
And It always gets to me,how do I make It Stop???
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Im sick of it
2007-01-16 04:58:14 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you actually stop and realize how much you judge everything…it is shocking. We judge people, places, moments, situations, everything. Sometimes we even do this in the first few seconds. This auto-judgement comes from the ego, the unconscious us. Our true soul self passes no judgement, and that is how we should approach everything..you will let it bother you until you make that decision to learn to block it out..People will always judge..learn to stand up for yourself..best of luck..
2007-01-16 05:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by tiffany j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really no way to make it stop. That is just how people are and how the world works. You have to realize that and figure out how you are going to deal with it and not worry about what others say and think no matter how difficult that may be. You can not stop ignorance. It is something that is everywhere. Even though it may be hard you have to be the bigger person and overcome and not let them bring you down.
2007-01-16 05:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing. You can't make people stop doing anything.You are who you are. If you accept yourself then don't worry about the others. They're ignorant in that case. PLUS...no one CHOOSES to be gay; either you are or you aren't. Ignore it and walk away =) if something happens because you are; that's a crime. I hope this helps. I have a relative who's gay and he's a great guy; has a terrfic job, in a relationship; has children etc....he's proud but he doesn't flaunt it you know?
2007-01-16 05:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for other people's approval. What matters is your happiness. Enjoy the love that your partner shares with you and don't expect others to understand or approve!
2007-01-16 05:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself for who you are and others will too. Be confident in your choices and when people give you crap give it right back. Don't let what other people think of you bother you, who cares, as long as you are true to yourself and you are happy, thats all that really matters. I hope things get better for you.
2007-01-16 05:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not easy being gay honey, i've had this kind of stuff all my life and of course you can't stop caring becuase you are a human, you've just got to teach yourself that the problem is with them in their small brains and it is not a problem for you to worry about,
if u need me u can mail me from my profile
2007-01-16 05:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them know it bothers you. If you're happy, who cares what others think? People that are judgemental do not have an understanding of different lifestyles.
2007-01-16 05:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't care about what they say, be proud & secure of whom you are,& what you represent. It's not your fault people have minds the size of an ant. Laugh at them and say "and what of it"?
2007-01-16 05:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being straight.you will always be judged of looked down upon if you look or act different to society
2007-01-16 05:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by kobie65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can`t make it stop but u can ignore their comments,just be happy with who u are
2007-01-16 05:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋