i need help i can not keep it anymore i want to share it with you hoping to find an solution, my family live in palestain, and i live in canada, i tried to bring them to live with me becouse of the war we have their, i have tried to get them visa, did not work, i have tried to sponsor them did not work either, i have to make per year 32, 000 thousands dollar to sponsor only one person, especially my mom, did not work either, i work part time and it will not work becouse i will never make the 32 thousands dollar , i got marry, my husbend work in another country, and i miss my familly and i am scared a lot for them, especialy my brothers, am not happy, i do not enjoy anything in life , i always think of my familly and i know the denger they live with especially my brothers , what should i do, i feel like am useless, i want them to live me in canada, where it is peace, secure and safe , but i can not i need help what should i do please anything anything, i can not live like this anymore.
2007-01-16 04:55:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most immigrants to new countries can find resources to help them transition to their new homes. Try to find a Palestinian resource or social service agency that can assist you.
Unfortunately, I don't what you can do about sponsoring your family. Unless you work full time or your brothers can come over on a student visa, there may not be more that you can do.
About not enjoying anything in life...maybe you can do volunteer work or find other women that are in a similar situation and build a support group. Consider going to school and taking a class that will help you get a better job (computer, languages, business). Is there a special need that other Palestinian immigrants have that you can fill? Use your experience with this situation to help others...you never know what connections you'll make or what will become of your involvement.
Finally, a lot of what you're dealing with is beyond your control. While I understand your concern for your family, being scared and worried for them does not change their situation. It does eat away at your ability to stay focused and come up with ideas for how you're going to live your life. Your heart is in the right place, but you have to accept the limitations of your situation.
I hope this helped a little. My thoughts are with you during this very trying time.
2007-01-16 05:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what the most you should be making a year is...try to find a job that pays you that much. If you can't find a job, then get another one in addition to what you're doing.
Having this big motivation to work extra hours, more jobs, might help with giving you the energy you need to accomplish what you need to do to sponsor your familly.
If you can't, and if you have a close friend...he can be your co-sponsor...you can add his income with yours.
Your husband could be your co-sponsor...except I am not sure if your co-sponsor has to be in the same country, so check that with your requirements to sponsor someone.
As a last resort if nothing else works...you should go back to college, study to get a degree or a specialized career. You will definitely have a better chance for going into a job that pays much better. It'll take a couple of years...but you will definitely be able to sponsor your family. There would be no "maybes" or guesses...you will definitely be able to.
You have a lot of choices, but they all have you working harder from your end. You must be patient and keep praying for your families' safety.
Be patient too with time. Don't worry about the things you can't change. Worry about earning more and getting to your goal to sponsor your family.
2007-01-16 13:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find people to help you sponsor their entry to Canada. You and your husband must ask your friends to help you in sponsoring their entry into Canada.
Have your family considered requesting assylum in Canada. You can submit that petition to the Canadian government?
2007-01-16 13:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by David G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pay someone to marry them, that's how the rest of them do it, go go home if your so worried, why can't your new husband sponsor them oh hes already sponsoring you and the rest of his family...Sorry I don't feel bad for you.....
2007-01-16 13:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
send your address (and SS #) I'll send you some money to help
2007-01-16 13:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what about political asylum??
2007-01-16 13:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋