but he kept it from me, all this time for a few months, and would talk to this other girl when i was not around, i saw his bill n confronted him, and he lied to me, said it was a guy bff,but his never cheated, we talked about it,he is a good guy and i love him, i said i would forgive, but i cant forget , its hard.
2007-01-16 04:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by dream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's such a dumb reason to be mad! Good grief, it's not like he was screwing the gal! Grow up and get over it!
2007-01-16 04:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The exact same thing happened to me. I got his cell phone bill and he couldn't deny it. He said they were just friends but I had a feeling he was lying. Sure enough, a few months later I caught him talking to her again. She was engaged at the time and her fiance called it off cause of them. We're still together but I can't trust him for anything. You will NEVER forget what he did...and even if you try to forgive him, it doesn't really make things better. We have a 2 year old together and I want her to have her daddy. He's messed up before so I made a promise to myself and my little girl...if I ever catch him even talking to someone else again, he's gone and I'm moving on.
2007-01-16 04:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by trish 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You advise, like interior the movie "made out of Honor" with Patrick Dempsey? Yeah, it happened as quickly as. They in no way did finally end up getting married. We dated for just about a year after that, yet then she moved away. She exchange into moving to a distinctive college out of state. We desperate to mutually ruin up and proceed to be close acquaintances, which we nonetheless are to on the present time. by using ways, "made out of Honor" isn't that undesirable.
2016-10-31 06:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make it hard on him. You have trust issues and if he doesn't get it screw him. He needs to cut it off. I trusted my ex and that's why she's my ex now. She couldn't stop. Its very disrespectful and I dont care what the hell she thinks. If he has issues, it should be sorted out with you. What the hell is he thinking? You need time away to really think things through. He really needs to work to earn your trust again. Just b/c you will forgive doesn't mean everything will be okay.
2007-01-16 06:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur on the way to bieng a jealus freek if u don't. Besides if someone turns out to be different than what you thought just piece out and find a person who fits. Why the hell do people always want to make things work when theres a million other's right around the corner. oh, rambling, sorry....yeh let'um be.
2007-01-16 04:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by ROCKET 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he is talking to her, than an affair will come later. why does he feel the need to be with the other girl, emotionally or in any other way, hurts your ego, and should. if he is with u, he should be faithful to u, if not get rid of him now before he breaks your heart. if he was totally satisfied with u, he wouldn't have the need for anyone else to talk to. don't keep him it will, only hurt u.
2007-01-16 05:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is on the path to having an emotional affair, which leads to a physical affair. If it was innocent, there wouldn't have been a reason to hide it from you. I would be very cautious in this situation...
2007-01-16 04:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋