my ex-husband and i have been divorced since june/06. since then we have talked everyday,spent the night with each other and. and all the while he's had a "CRAZY" girlfriend. and now he has called it quits with her. we both love each other,and the girl isn't the reason for our divorced.Money was our problem. i guess what i'm asking is, HOW DO I TELL HIM WHAT I TRULY FEEL ABOUT HIM,i would take him back in a heart beat. I think we are both scared. and don't want to hurt each other again. I left him and divorced him. SOMEONE HELP ANYONE
2007-01-16 04:44:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you feel so strongly...just tell him and see how he reacts.
2007-01-16 04:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is suppose to be a lifelong commitment though many reasons people split up here are some reasons: They get cheated on. They have financial issues which puts a burden on the relationship The lack of sex for one of the partners can destroy a marriage Illness some people do not want to stick around if their mate gets ill. Kids sometimes drive couples apart. One of the spouses places work above anything else a workaholic attitude has ruined many marriages. Love can be good and all though many irreconcilable differences force many couples into the divorce realm. They get bored with the same thing day after day which is another reason marriage don't work these days especially when you also have many home-wreckers tempting men and woman to cheat.
2016-03-29 00:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look love does not come and go...and we all know that. If you are spending all this time with him and sleeping together, and you both feel the same way, you have to talk to him, tell him how you feel and you realized that you are perfect for each other and love him more than ever, and you belong together. People make mistakes and we learn from them, and letting him go, was one big mistake that made you realize how in love you are wih him, and you would have him back in a heart beat if he feels the same way. You only live today, and you might not have him tomorrow, take your chance girl and love him as much as you can, you know you both love eachother, you can make it work! :)
2007-01-16 04:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you left and your financial problem suddenly fixed itself I would say fly back together. But we both know that is not the case. Money issues are so sticky and funny, at times darn right out scarry, have ya'll talked about that. Have you admitted your money mistakes and will he do the same. Until this is fixed you will still have the same problem, unless it is more than a money issue. What ever it is you deserve the best. If this is your best TAKE IT. Let no man put under what is meant to be
2007-01-16 04:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If finances was the cause of divorce then there wasn't much love there in the first place. If you loved each other you would have worked through it. Maybe you and your ex are better as lovers and not married.
2007-01-16 04:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by MISS KNIGHT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are moving in the right direction. Don't push. You remember the reasons you divorced. Let nature take its course again and all will fall into place as it is supposed to.
Good luck to you both!
2007-01-16 04:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes ONE person to speak up! You're both scared... If you were the one who called it quits, then you be the one to step to the plate... Tell him how you feel & let the chips fall where they may! With every action, there is a reaction... but not if you don't try!
2007-01-16 04:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't even consider it if the financial problems have not been resolved. But I think he deserves to know how you feel so he can make a decision to continue your relationship or truly move on. You need to know if he's on the same page.
2007-01-16 04:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ailyx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just work out the finances and communicate with him more, as problems just don't go away by their selves, if u decide to take him back. get a job if u have to, do whatever it takes to get rid of the problems, that plagued the marriage before.
2007-01-16 04:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and let things happen as they will. Why rush a ggod thing?
2007-01-16 04:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open up to him on your feelings.who knows he may be nursing the same feelings.then work towards getting back together.
2007-01-16 05:00:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋