I know this question might sound really stupid, but I am asking anyway. My husband and I are trying to conceive but he is convinced that he can't get me pregnant because when he ejaculates inside me most of it runs back out. I had the same thought before but didn't voice it to him but, it does seem that he isn't going deep enough for anything to stay inside. Is this possible and if so, what can we do about it?
2007-01-16 04:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by stacye5398 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
The ejaculate that comes back out is normal. It means that it's an excess and is not needed inside. It may mean that he actually releases a lot. How do you test this? Try making him ejaculate in a cup and measure it. Then when you have sex , if you cannot measure the discharge try estimating if it is the same amount if more or less. Bear in mind that you also release fluids during climax. And sometimes after sex and you urinate you discharge some of the fluids. Try raising your legs and avoid standing up after he released. It will allow your body to retain a little bit more of a semen. If it doesn't solve your problem you might want to track down of your ovulation cycle which is the best time to get pregnant if your a regular. And if this still fails it's best that both of you consult a doctor. He may have a low sperm count and the depth had nothing to do with it. Hope it helps. Goodluck
2007-01-16 04:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by aleondra_iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard what comes up must come down? some of the sperm does travel into your area deep inside where it needs to be. others the not so strong swimmers fall behind. all the sperm that is not used will come out. you may notice the morning after sex that your panties are slightly damp or that when you wipe yourself you have a little discharge. thats the stuff that stayed up there. if it makes you feel better try laying flat on the bed after he well you know. lay with a pillow under your bum for about 15 min. the stuff will still come out but it helps it to stay in longer this way. i have had the same problem my hubby's stuff always comes out of me after we are done. but im pregnant with baby number three right now so really there is no problem with the unused stuff comeing out. good luck.
2007-01-16 12:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how deep he goes, when he ejaculates it shoots it up in there and it will come right back out after your done. That is just what your body does. Just keep trying and enjoy yourself. I've heard that people who are too intent on trying to get pregnant instead of enjoying the moment have a lesser chance of getting pregnant. Just try not to think about it too much and it will happen.
2007-01-16 12:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by twittoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i'm sure he is going deep enough, but try to stay laying on your back after he ejaculates, this helps the sperm stay in there, if you are really serious lay with your bum under a pillow or something, it kind of takes the fun out of it, but i did this and was pregnant in 5 months
2007-01-16 12:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is perfectly normal for some of it to come out even if it seems like a lot. And even though it does come out it doesn't mean that there aren't any sperm swimming up there, there are millions of sperm per ejaculation.To me it wouldn't matter how "deep" he ejaculates because it will almost always come out. You will get pregnant when it's your time, so I wouldn't worry about this so much. Hope this helps.
2007-01-16 12:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by hopewishdream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to have some of the semen leak back out. It has nothing to do with how deep he goes. You are only seeing what comes out. Plenty of it is staying inside.
Some women lay on their back with the hips elevated for 30 minutes after sex to help more of the semen stay inside.
2007-01-16 12:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not because he is not deep inside you why it runs back out. That is something that just happens, even though it runs back out that does not mean it all does. Hold your legs up for about 15 minutes after sex to help the sperm along.
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Good luck
2007-01-16 14:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for the semen to leak out after intercourse. You should lay still with your hips elevated for half hour or so. When you are fertile you have lots of cervical mucus and immediately when he ejaculates his sperm swim into your mucus and get where they need to be so it is just fine that the semen leaks out--most of the sperm are well on their way already!
2007-01-16 12:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the same thing that happens to me.. I thought I was the only one... But we are on our second child now...I talked to a dr and she said dont think about it just enjoy the sex and it will happen so that is what I did. I stopped thinking about getting pregnant and we just enjoyed our sex life...And after six months I am pregnant!!
2007-01-16 12:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as he cums inside of you prop 2 or 3 pillows underneath you buttox so that your vagina is pointing up that way it goes the other way in instead of out i always thought the same thing cause it always seemed to come right out of me but i have a beautiful baby boy now so good luck
2007-01-16 12:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by <3 mykiddos,mylife <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋