Im 25yrs old & Im dating this wonderful guy for over 2 1/2 years, Ive always dated guys.When I 1st started dating the guy I am now I used to work @ this store w/ this cute girl who was gay & I thought she was awesome, cute & just super funny!! We used to hang out & kiss &stuff.My 1st time kissing a girl was w/ her.A few months went by, she really liked me & I was attracted to her as well.When we saw eachother at work we would make out in the bathroom & stuff.One day we went out & when I dropped her back off we started fooling around & she was touching me & I was really turned on!!I ended up quitting from my job & cuz it was hard to see her due to me having a bf, that she knew about, I didnt get to see her often.So we kinda just ended things.We have recently started chatting again on the phone & through emails.Am I just hung up on the fact that she was my 1st girl experience?I think bout her alot even when we didnt talk.Im just confused on how I feel and would love to be sexual w/her.
2007-01-16 04:37:41 · 8 answers · asked by Jetty 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I dont want to be sexual with her just I can say I have been with a girl but because I am attracted to her.
2007-01-16 04:38:29 · update #1
Sounds like you're really attracted to this girl. Which would make you bisexual. Don't panic, it's not fatal. In fact it has its advantages.
However, you need to sort your feelings out. And if you decide to go further with the girl, you probably should come clean with your boyfriend about your mixed feelings. He may dump you or he may be totally turned on by the "new" you.
2007-01-16 04:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you do want to be sexual with her, don't say you just want her, because you can say you've been with a girl. You could be with any girl to just say that, you really want her, espcially if you are thinking about her all the time.
I think you should treat this situation just as if she were a guy. You've been cheating on your boyfriend with someone else that you have feelings for. If you don't want to break up with your boyfriend then, leave her alone. But if you know you will not get over this, and you really need to explore this, then you should breakup with your boyfriend. Otherwise, you are simply cheating.
2007-01-16 12:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by double0negitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is first... if you decide you want to explore your feelings with this girl, you have to talk to your boyfriend. Cheating is cheating, regardless of which gender the lover is. If he is ok with you exploring, then go for it. If not, you need to break up with him before you consider doing anything with the girl. It's perfectly ok to want to explore sex with a girl you are attracted to.. some people really are bisexual, and it definitely sounds like you are. As long as you are honest with everyone, things should turn out ok.
2007-01-16 12:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Beth B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as I am not of the same persuasion as you and I do not know you I would be miss to assume I know or could advise you on the best course of action other than to suggest that indeed you are confused!
Not sure, from your content, whether it is a recent occurrence but you are certainly confused!
2007-01-16 12:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by MtnManInMT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just consider it a part of growing up and exploring your sexuality.
2007-01-16 12:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to use less words to make your point, whatever it is.
2007-01-16 12:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it.....youll never know what could happen...and this feeling you are having will go away....
2007-01-16 12:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by jeff m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be with her. break up with your bf and be with her. don't cheat.
2007-01-16 12:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋