I love a man that he claims he loves me, too. But he loves his daughter and he wants her to move to our house.... but I do not like her jealusy and selfishness in our lives.....
2007-01-16 04:35:57 · 9 answers · asked by Minas K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you accept him, you accept everything about him. This includes his daughter. Any man that chooses a woman over his flesh and blood, his children, is lower than whale s-h-i-t.
2007-01-16 04:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by devlish_blu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't specify whether the daughter is a minor child or an adult. Assuming this is a child...Please let me remind you, that you will NEVER be more important than a child. Its selfish and completely ridiculous for someone to enter into a relationship, knowing the dynamics, yet think afterward they will "get rid" of the parts they don't like. I have to agree with previous poster in the term "rid" being very disturbing. I would suggest you DID not take the advice of the 1st person who said "make him choose" You do not have that right. I think you need to look closely at yourself, look further into why you feel as you do, I can assure you it is NOT healthy. Lastly, even if this daughter is an adult, which changes the "living situation" a bit, you still must remember that child came before you and if you come between a man and his child (ren) , you will lose !
2007-01-16 04:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by CLowe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mina. Just like I tell men that claim to love women but not their children, I will tell you: IF YOU LOVE HIM, you must learn to love his daughter.
She may be jealous, selfish, etc. but she's HIS DAUGHTER. Why don't you try to find a peaceful solution to the problem with the girl other than "getting rid" of her?
Next time, use another word other than "getting rid". That sounds very dangerous of you to say. If I were him, I would be concerned with the girl's life.
2007-01-16 04:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love this man you have to accept everything that comes with him. If you make a parent choose between their child and something/someone else you are likely to lose. Is there anyway yuou and the daughter can talk things through?
2007-01-16 04:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by maidmaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you the two of you have to be honest and work things out. You sound like you have no intention of accepting his daughter which is sad, b/c she is a part of him. Do you think maybe YOU are being somewhat selfish? Just something to ponder. Best wishes.
2007-01-16 04:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I am reading, you sound as if you might be the selfish one. Is his daugher under 18? So many men don't take care of their kids and you find one who does and you want to diss that!
2007-01-16 04:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by fab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not make a person choose between daughter/son and you. If you do, then you should always lose.
2007-01-16 04:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by finallyfree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I can't believe you have even asked this...DUH, of course he loves his DAUGHTER...and if you truly loved him, you'd take them BOTH, with no problems...of course she would be jealous, you're taking her daddy-how old is she? Try putting yourself in her shoes my dear...Good Luck, and if you were to make him choose, I hope he picks his DAUGHTER!
2007-01-16 05:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by glo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him choose.
2007-01-16 04:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by lilac. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋