2007-01-16 04:28:13 · 60 answers · asked by Roxley x 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No way! There's nothing wrong experimenting with things if you both enjoy it but not if you don't.
If you haven't already, tell him you find it painful and uncomfortable not to mention the damage it could do to you over time if he's not careful.
If he insists after that then insist on shoving a large a large dildo sticking up his bottom before booting him out.
2007-01-16 04:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
How do you know he loves it a lot? I mean, you say he does, but does he have a lot of experience back there? Has that experience been with you, and do you not like it?
I mean, if he's done it elsewhere and enjoys it, then I don't blame him for wanting to do you that way. If it's just a desire, they you don't know if he really "likes it a lot."
If it's you he's done it and likes it, maybe you two can work on making it better for you. Or, if you don't want that any more ---and you shouldn't do what you don't want to do --- then maybe he can enter you from behind and pretend he's back there....I had a g/f who loved talking dirty and would say that but then I wouldn't be in the back door.
It's all about pleasing each of you. It's a little give and take.
Need to know more, but I think you should not rule it out while not doing what you don't want to do.
2007-01-16 09:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Robbie trd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!!! He's not the one taking it, is he?
Come on woman, sex with a loving partner is about giving pleasure to each other, making each other feel good, comfortable and happy.
There's a thin line between pure pleasure and some pain.
When it's just down to pain, disgust or fright... somehow we've lost the meaning of sex, pleasure, each other and love haven't we?
It's not just about your husband.
Sex musn't become something you're dreading.
What's the point?
Talk to him.
If he can't accept it, then he DOES have a problem.
If he threatens to go and see elsewhere, then, you'll know what type of guy you're married to and how much he values you.x
2007-01-16 06:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Has done it before? you said he loves it, do you mean watching it or doing. Well all I can say is it's not for everyone. only if you are comfortable with it would I suggest to do it. if not don't do something as such it could traumatize you.
2007-01-16 06:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by sissyurban 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly making love is about mutual enjoyment and satisfaction.
What you are talking about is his selfish sexual gratification so be straight (no pun intended) and tell him you don't enjoy it.
Don't let him persuade you by saying "you would if you loved me" he wouldn't ask if he loved you and knew your dislike for it.
As a final resort declare a sudden love for f/m to male fisting, and repeat after him, "you would if you loved me"
2007-01-16 12:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by streetblitzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be good for both of you, not just him.
I have tried anal sex many times and I still hate it, no matter how gentle the guy is or how much lube he uses. If you hate something, nothing will change it if it doesn't feel good.
So no.
2007-01-16 04:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by aimeelopez 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell him. it's good to be open about what things your ok about doing and things that your just not ok doing. It keeps both you and your partner informed. It's good to be communicative in the department, it really is. I mean it's YOUR body and you have that right.
2007-01-16 04:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you really don't like it, then don't do it. If you are apathetic about it, then occasionally.
No one should have to do sexual things that they don't like.
2007-01-16 05:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do u mean that he likes anal sex or that he likes to give anal sex?
either way, don't do anything you don't want to do sunshine! Just put him straight (good pun if the former is correct) and tell him NO.
2007-01-16 04:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by kiki_dees 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
hahahahaha.I got something for u if u don't like anal sex make him taste the cat and I know YOU will like that if you not doing so already
2007-01-16 04:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by yo 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋