My question is related with creating a friend again. Please answer me neatly.?

Question

I had a friend 2 years before when we was in school. We had sex also that time ( we are gays) After that we fighted due to some reason and after that he never intrested to talk and friendship me. He just talks some casual. I want to creat again a depp friendship. What I do. That fight was not due to me actully he was spilted by some bad boys so I fighted him. That was his fault. But now I want to again friend of him. What I do? Please suggest me .

Answer 1

Try talking to him and try and spend more time with him to become closer. He will let you know what he wants, whether it's a relationship or friendship. Good Luck

Answer 2

Sex always has a way of mucking up a friendship.

First apologize for the events of the past, regardless of if you see them as being primarily your fault he may have another perspective. Just open a dialog with a apology and explain that you really missed hanging out with him. Possibly suggest meeting up for a coffee or a beer, just a casual time for you to get caught up.

Granted he agree reminisce about some of the fun times you have shared hanging out, explain that you have missed them and would really like to consider him a friend again.

Don't push it, friendships develop naturally over time, the best you can do is put out how you feel and hope that he is willing to give the friendship another shot.

Answer 3

First and foremost, is it really a friendship you want? I hope so. Next, you cannot point fingers of his fault or not. The best answer I can give you is to be up front and let him know that you are sorry over the past, that the past is exactly that, and that you would like for the future to hold a great and lasting friendship. If that is not in the stars, then let it go, there are plenty of other people in this wonderful world that would gladly accept your friendship.

Answer 4

First of all, tell him how you feel and make sure you get your point out clearly. Bring up something that you both used to laugh at and that might spark some recognition! Gaining a friend again can be tough and it could take months or maybe evern years, but if you want to be friends bad enough, you won't give that up so quickly. Having an open and honest conversation with each other is the only thing you can do at the time!

Answer 5

You can't go back to a friendship and expect it to be the same. You will only be disappointed.
There is too much history here and you have to let it go as a lesson you needed to have happen in your life. You have learned something from this, right?????
I think you have to move on and find new friends.
Be more careful with your friendships and sexual relationships, don't over react, you must learn how to communicate and listen to one another.
This is all part of maturing and growing up in life so that your next relationship will be even better than the last.

Answer 6

I don't understand what you mean by "answer you neatly"but whatever.First I am glad that you are comfortable with your sexualitity and that is great but,being gay has nothing to do with your question.It is never good in any type of relationship whether it is straight or gay to cross the line of friendship by sleeping together.You need to make a choice either you want to be friend's with this guy or you want to be lovers.Either way you need to sit down and talk to him.Don't rehash the fight you had but discuss how you would like your future to be together.I hope this help's you.Good luck.

Answer 7

you can't force something like that

jus see what Chemistry is there

sometimes if sumbudy is exsighting and ya just love em, maybe they were made for each other,

same sex relationships usually easier I think, closer understanding

Answer 8

Be determined, but do not come across as desperate. Best of luck, my friend.

Answer 9

Talk to him once & tell hi how you feel . if he still persists to ingone you get the hint , he doesn't want you in his life......Move on !!

Answer 10

I have no idea. sorry.