Our relationship was almost perfect, but here are a couple things he did that made me dump him:
A few months back, on my myspace, I put "I think I might be 'quirkyalone'. Google it if you don't know what I'm talking about." So, my (ex)boyfriend saw that I wrote that within an hour of my doing it (it was the ONLY thing that had changed on my page in a long time and he knew about it within the hour!!). So he googled the term and got all butthurt about it and we had a fight.
Once he discovered that I was hanging around on Yahoo! Answers (have another account, he doesn't know about this one) and answering questions, 3 days in a row, he called and "playfully" mentioned a question that I had answered that day. It was like he was watching me.
The 11th, I put a post on my Yahoo! 360 that said I was confused, not sleeping well and couldn't talk about it. Well, within an HOUR, he knew about it, emailed me about it, and we broke up because that's what I was confused about.
2007-01-16 04:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by KitKat Bar 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You're right I guess, it was an immature relationship.
2007-01-16 04:22:42 · update #1
That wasn't the only thing that was wrong, though. He is almost 27, has changed his major 5 times in the 2.5 years we were together, he never finished any project that he started, his dad pays for everything for him (he lives in his dad's house, goes to school on his dad's money). He didn't hold a job longer than 4 months the whole time he was with me. The only thing he's sure of wanting in his life is getting married, which I may never want to do, I just don't know at this point. Other than that, his personality was almost exactly what I want in a guy...it's hard not to regret dumping someone that felt almost perfect.
2007-01-16 04:25:45 · update #2
We're not teenagers. I'm 23 and he's 26. But as you can see by the details, he needs to grow up.
2007-01-16 04:31:53 · update #3
Yeah I would have dumped him, if your not happy with how he was acting, you can't expect him to change so the obvious answer is to leave him, things usually only go downhill once you start to get annoyed etc with a person. He sounded a little possesive too, and that leads to bad bad things!
2007-01-16 04:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Aleerfas*Mwah!* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-08 00:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by marceau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Perfection' has a different meaning to each individual. maybe it was perfect to you but not to him! Well if you were confused about the relationship then maybe it wasn't perfect to you either. Have fun and be save, you and him are only teenagers and should not get to deep into relationships, because there are so many other things you need to know and explore! Just one thing, always carefully make your choices and never regret them always learn from them! :0)
2007-01-16 04:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nena S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, for more reasons than 1...Sounds like he's a stalker, and there are trust issues between the both of you, and it is an immature thing to fight about, so it's not worth it.
2007-01-16 04:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by confusedizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to remember is that people are curious and if they know you have a page where you post, they will check it out. Second thing to remember, do not post anything you don't want those curious people to see. Do not write it on paper, do not record it in anyway. It will always...ALWAYS bite you in the ***.
2007-01-16 04:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by sammiejane67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an immature relationship.
2007-01-16 04:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by Seven Costanza 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and he are spending a little too much time in the cyber world as opposed to the real world.
2007-01-16 04:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by D Marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you did the right thing you can go out and find so many more boys/men better than that keep you head up nothing to worry unless he tells his friends because of you dumping him.
2007-01-16 04:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by sweeie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both wanted different things...
2007-01-16 04:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I dumped my ex primarily becasue he was very posessive and distrustful, and tried to limit my friendships and whatnot. I couldn't take it anymore.
2007-01-16 04:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by My Dog Rowdy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋