2007-01-16 04:14:50 · 30 answers · asked by andie f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no i would not forgive either of them. first of all its not right for your mom to run off with your b/f because a mom is supose to be there for YOU not for HIM. that is not right for any mother to do and im sorry that that happened to you. im sure you can find someone else that treats you so much better than both of them
good luck and i hope i helped you out!!
2007-01-16 04:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by mandymandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! I cant imagine how you feel. Personally I wouldn't forgive either of them. It sounds hard but two people who you care for so much have betrayed you beyond belief. You've got to consider how long they were at it - they did it behind your back. If it were me I would struggle trusting anyone ever again. Your ex has been unfaithful and your mother is just as much to blame! Im sorry to hear this has happened. They don't deserve your forgiveness, friendship or thoughts anymore. She may be your mum but she has hurt you in one of the worst possible ways. I hope everything turns out ok for you. chin up :-)
2007-01-16 12:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by chaos4eternity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't forgive him. Don't feel you automatically need to forgive your mother just because of who she is.
If she's seen the light and got shot of that cheating fool and trying to make amends hear her out then follow your gut instinct. If you do choose to try again with her then make her work for it and keep clear boundaries to ensure she doesn't hurt you again. For example, don't let her get so closely involved in your private life again - that's a privelege she abused and no longer deserves.
2007-01-16 12:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No dont forgive either of them boyfriends come and go but mothers dont if she loved you she wouldnt of done this to you
2007-01-16 13:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and I thought I had problems! OK, on the off chance this is a serious question, forgive them both, but NEVER take the b/f back, he's just trouble, and always take your Mother's actions with a grain of salt, don't trust her again.
2007-01-16 12:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself...not others who have wronged you in some way.
You don't have to like their actions, but you also don't have to let seeds of bitterness into your heart.
I'm sorry that happened to you. Move on with your life
2007-01-16 12:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't forgive either of them. She's your mother so you might want to keep some sort of relationship with her but as far as he goes, you should never see or speak to him again.
2007-01-16 12:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont forgive either,horrible people!
2007-01-16 12:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn Jerry Springer!! U should forgive your mother because shes the one who will always be there and has been there for u. Screw the guy!
2007-01-16 12:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd tell both of them to screw. Mother was way out of bounds. It's down right sleezy.
2007-01-16 12:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by content26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋