Healthy question about sex (deal with smaller pe nis). What do i do to improve our sex life?

Question

Okay, so my new boyfriend is hot, good-looking, sweet, gentle and is very caring. i love him and he loves me too.
But we have problems having sex. it seems like we both don't get so high because he doesn't have quite a big penis. we try several position but it doesn't help enough. sometimes, we both hardly feel it. I don't blame him at all because the fact that i'm a single mom of one child. I gave birth before so mine isn't too tight as well. i know it.

What do i do?

But he makes me so wet all the time. no question about it .

Pls don't ask me to dump him. i won't. i love him.

any good suggestions? like any positions?
BTW, I'm 25 and he's 23

Answer 1

That is a difficult situation, but can be overcome.

First and foremost do keigal exercises. If you get too wet, then wipe. A little wiping will create more friction between his penis and your vagina.
Also, arch your back. While he is on top of you not like _I (the bottom line is you and the straightup line is him) but more like =. Wow, this one is kinda hard to explain. Using this position with your back SLIGHTLY arched and him higher up on you (higher up as in his bellybutton to your bellybutton instead of your bellybutton to his upperstomach) this will allow you to feel the sensation of his penis rubbing on your clitoris and you can concentrate on that instead of a penis going in and out.
I sure hope that makes sense. If it doesn't then just let me know and I will try to reword it.
It works great for all sizes, but for a smaller penis it will be a life saver. If he keep popping out then your back is arched too much.
Good luck and enjoy!

Answer 2

Giving birth does not mean that you have to be not so tight for the rest of your life. You can do Keagle excesses that will help tighten you back up and that may help. There are also some things that can help him get a little bit larger. There are rings that you put at the base of the penis that restrict the flow of blood back out of the erect member. Usually used to keep the man from going soft, but they do also have the added benefit of making the mans member slightly thicker. Give those two things a try and see if that will help. Good luck...

Answer 3

You poor girl! I feel so sorry for you! Giving birth shouldn't be the reason that you don't feel anything.....unless of course you gave birth last week!! There are positions that I could tell you about that I know for sure you'll both feel and enjoy!! ;)

I do many different types of exercises to keep tight and to control my squirting so I can teach you those as well if your interested.

I have a sexy man (his name is ilpinman) and I'm so lucky that he is quite large down there; I feel every inch of him..........and he's more then just a friend with "benefits" he's my future husband!!! ;)

Answer 4

Keggle physical activities! The muscle tissues down there are relatively powerful (as I am definite you realize good ample having given start earlier than) however they must be maintained and informed. So should you agreement those muscle tissues in many instances for the period of the day, and in addition whilst you're having intercourse, you then must each enjoy extra pride. Other then that the one factor I can advise is positions. Trying matters had been your legs are nearer in combination it's going to make him suppose larger and expectantly deliver him extra trust. I wish that is helping!

Answer 5

What he lacks in length, can be made up by the tongue, digits and imagination. 69's and 71's are my favorite and tastiest numbers. My best work is done in the first 45 minutes with the above three. Giving her the ultimate "O" is my only goal. Nothing else matters after that. I look forward to the cuddling and conversation.

Don't let a small pecker be a relationship wrecker.

Answer 6

I have a female friend that always says the following to all our other female friends who ask her about the same problem because she is a doctor. She says, you simply cannot date a man with a small pen*s as you'll never get the pleasure you need. I think this is the best answer advise I can give you as it seems to work for all other friends that have talked with her.

Answer 7

You should go to an adult novelty store and see what they have...Position to try, you on your back him on his knees..lift your butt on his knees,,,he should hit your G-Spot this way...I've had the same problem. I don't have kids but I dated this great guy who shall I say stopped growing at age 12. But that was the only position that worked anything else would put me to sleep.

You might want to buy some toys that give clitoral stimulation...theres one that you can put around his shaft so when you are on top it will give you vibration and he will be able to feel it too.

Answer 8

THE MAGIC WORD IS FOREPLAY, the more foreplay the better go to men's health and under the sex section they have a position master the tell you what is the best position for you to do.

Answer 9

First of all your assumption that the size of the penis is the problam is just that an assumption. Sounds to me like you are into each other and are attracted. I would relax forget teh size of it and let nature take its course so to speak.

Answer 10

It sounds to me you have a big fat a s s and that if it wasn't so big, he could penetrate you more. Same thing for him - does he have a gut? If so, the extra weight can hide valuable inches. The two together can create big problems.