Have you ever been a bully or a victim of bullying?

Question

TO bullies why did you do it for?
To victims how did you deal with being bullied?

Answer 1

I got to my breaking point and beat the crap oot of the bully. Never had a problem after that again.

Answer 2

I was bullied all my childhood life.That was until 5 friends of my brother stopped by and started harassing me in the living room. I left and went to my room and last I remembered was being pushed so hard over my bed that I hit the wall. When I came to, there were cops everywhere and 3 of the friends were being transported by ambulance to the ER. I had apparently blacked out and went ballistic.Destroyed everything in my room.My brother tried to intervene and ended up in a wheelchair. ALL BECAUSE TEACHERS AND PARENTS WOULD NOT LISTEN. Bullying must be taken seriously and file charges if necessary.

Answer 3

No, i have never been bullied or bullied anyone (i hope not). But to answer your question, bullies bully others to feel more powerful and more in control,because in reality their home suks so they take it out on other helpless smaller kids. Victims normally just try to avoid the bully or do whatever he/she says, when they should stick up for themselves cause bullies target weak kids. But whatever doesn't kill you, make you stronger right?

Answer 4

Yea, every since pre-school and still am. Then I was mentally bullied by my step father and step mother, scary part is my parents knew but did nothing about it. When I got shoved into the locker, I just sat there didn't say a word till they took me out, the bullies claimed that they owned me, and I was just letting them take advantage about me because I was always token advantage of. I went to an Spanish school and they bullied me, pushed me down the stairs, tortured me, called me named, stole from me, lied about me. They told everyone that I stole from the principle and the police arrested me for five days, and the principle slapped me and punched me and they all found out because they had a back up camera only security can access it and it showed me gettiing bullied and all that stuff, my parents said nothing about it nor cared, they just still think I'm crazy because of all they stuff I went thru :

Answer 5

I was a victim of emotional bullying. A friend in High School used what I call "emotional blackmail" to keep me at her side as her best friend. I finally asked another friend to help me, someone I had known since Kindergarten and she helped me stick to my plans with her and show the other girl that we could still be friends even if I did things with someone else.

Answer 6

Yes I have. The only one that can stand down a bully is a peer though. I'm well aware of the karma for your own behavior so ignore those that do bully, knowning they'll get theirs some time.

Answer 7

As a child a was a big bully, I was so unhappy, and not knowing how to express myself, because I was a child. Now having children and seeing my shy little girl being bullied did not impress me at all. Then my second child is a bully I really try to get to the source of it and I really try to show her different ways to express her self, and bigger vocabulary always helps

Answer 8

I used to get teased and picked on in school for having big ears and when I had to where my hair up for work I got stared at and joked about.
These days I just try to accept the way I look and just agree with people and even try to laugh along with them.

Answer 9

Bullies are p*ssies. Kick their @sses.

Answer 10

Victim : Felt that it was inevitable,waited for it to end.