when i go in to the doctors office she maybe stays in there for like 2 minutes then she is gone and tells me to see her at the naext appointment. she doesnt give me anytime to ask her questions like are the pains im feeling are normal and if there is anything i can do my back pains. im 18 years old this is my frist pregnancy and she acts like she is discussed with me because im so young and still in high school. im 7 months pregnant does anyone have advise for me.
2007-01-16 02:59:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That is how my first OB was. Notice I say first because I switched immediately. It doesn't matter how old or young you are, you are there for her service which you are paying for and you deserve excellent treatment and if you feel you aren't getting it, find a Doctor who will give it. Switching Dr.'s was easy and definitely the best decision.
2007-01-16 03:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Serendipity#2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that its too late to change doctors. when she first comes into the room just start asking questions then. From my personal experience, the nurses are better to talk to than the doctor. I couldn't stand my doctors (I switched) but the nurses are the ones who were most helpful to me.
I experienced this with both pregnancies. I don't think it has anything to do with age. I had my first at 23 and my second at 28.
Back pains are normal in the 3rd trimester. Are you taking any parenting classes? Did they provide you with information booklets to read?
If not, there is a book titled "What to Expect When You Are Expecting". Its a great book to have especially since this is your first.
If you have any questions or concerns, you can email me at anytime. You need all the emotional support you can get during this time.
2007-01-16 11:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh. I completely sympathize with you. I was a pregnant teenager, too. My doctor was completely cold and short with me as well. Next time you go and she doesnt give you enough time to ask questions, stop her from leaving. I doubt she'll just walk out on you if you ask questions. OR..look for another OB/Gyn. It IS kind of late to switch doctors but if this lady is going to be delivering your baby you WANT to be comfortable. You dont want someone delivering your baby that you are not comfortable with who you dont feel likes you.
If you choose to stay at her practice, speak up. Let her know that you are not feeling like you're being treated fairly. Voice your concerns about your aches and pains. You have the right to be treated just as an older woman would have.
Good Luck!
2007-01-16 11:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by jmnixon1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be giving you an opportunity to ask questions. You should have a list ready and tell her you need to ask questions. Be assertive! Some doctors are really busy and don't take the time they should w/ each of their patients. Also, you should pick up some pregnancy literature to ease your fears like the book "What to Expect when You're Expecting". If she still just brushes you off, find another doctor.
2007-01-16 11:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just immediately start asking questions and discussing any issues you might have when she walks into the room. If after doing that she doesn't really thoroughly answer your questions or you feel you are being rushed, I would just make her aware of your feelings. You are getting to the point where you should be going every 2 weeks to the doctor. Let her know that you feel unsure about some things and need to put your mind at ease.
2007-01-16 11:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, doctors are overworked, she may not be noticing you have concerns. Speak up and see what her response is, if she sits down and discusses things with you great...if not schedule your next appointment with another doctor within the practice. You should feel completely comfortable with any of your doctors. Don't forget to fill out on of the office's comment cards. Good luck with your pregnancy and I hope you get you questions answered.
2007-01-16 11:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by nikbern525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to change doctors. This one does not seem to care for your well-being. If you can't change doctors, then you are going to have to speak up for yourself next time. You can get this doctor to listen to you if you are insistent. Be pushy! Don't take no for an answer. Make sure the first thing you do when she walks in is to start with whatever your questions or complints are.
2007-01-16 11:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all that is normal for your appointments to go that quickly..it was the same for me when i was pregnant..but it is up to you to keep her in there longer by asking your questions...she may think you dont have any, so i would call the office and ask over the phone if you still have unanswered questions. and also having pains is very normal especially at 7 months..congrats!!
2007-01-16 11:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when she walks in the door for your appointment that you have questions and you would like to ask them before she leaves the room. If she protests to this in any way, find another doctor!
2007-01-16 11:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well id ask your doctor to stay and ask all your questions, also you can change your doctor if that doesn't help. If you have questions ask! it also depends on the trimester your on. when your in you r month or so the visits are fast when you r about to have the baby the visits will be extremely long
2007-01-16 11:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by chkn_fur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋