# I am now 16 years old and my girlfriend is 15 years. We are the classmates. I love her very much but don't know if she loves me. At what situation I should purpose or give love letter to her?
2007-01-16 02:47:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give her a love letter, proposing should be done when both people are ready and stable in there life and relationship. Your to young to get married although you may be thinking in a few years and just be ingaged for awhile ( i don't know) but you need to think about both of your lives you guys are too young. I got married when i was 15 and he was 19 and i'm going through a divorse right now we have 2 kids have been married for 7 years. I was just so young , i never got to exsperience anything in my life, I left about a year ago and it was the worst thing I could have done because the grass is not greener on the other side.
Don't rush into anything to fast you both have a lot to learn before you jump into these things. I hope you can understand what i am saying. just be careful .
Write her a love note maybe you could tell her you would love to get married one day when the time is right for both of you and she will know how you feel! hope i can help you !!! good luck
2007-01-16 03:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweat heart you are way too young to propose. I understand that you love her, but I would really wait. You have a life time ahead of you. Wait at least until you have started college and have time to meet other people. You never know what might happen. She is also WAY too young for that kind of a commitment. She is barely a woman. Allow her time to grow up and explore life a bit before putting her in a position where she need to choose if she is going to to spend the rest of her life with you. Most often when people make those decisions as young as you, they don't last. Take your time and just enjoy life. Write her a love letter, but don't get yourself so involved that you can't live without her. You'll become obsessed and obsession is not good.
2007-01-16 02:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Renee C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you some insight. Sure tell her how you feel whats the harm but don't go all crazy in love with her. I'm 22 years old with 2 kids and married. At 16 I know sex was on my mind alot don't let it be a factor. Kids at a young age isn't what you would think it would be. Me and my wife wish we waited another 5 years atleast. Most of all don't get your hopes up to much. you both have reached a point in your lives where you want to explore new things. Pull her aside in an area open so she don't feel traped to answer outside what she feels. GL with it and I hope it goes well.
2007-01-16 02:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sparks 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a little pointless to propose to someone if you don't know their feeling. You're putting the cart before the horse. Go with the love letter. You're only 16, and she's 15 so there's nothing you can do legally to get married anyway. Slow down, speed racer.
2007-01-16 02:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why? There's numerous answers, as there's numerous contexts for each. Some guys write, but then feel that they are revealing too much of something inside them, and scrap it. Some may simply be afraid of seeming too "weak" or "soft", like some build up an image of a loner and are used to people acting a certain way to them, and worry about people looking at them in an entirely different way. Or some can be like my friends, who believe they can't write worth crap and scrap the idea in their head immediately. Others may simply want to write out their feelings, to be able to put them into words, and once they write the letter, they feel like they don't need it anymore. Basically, it's all kind of based on the guy and the relationship. But mostly the guy, in my opinion ^.~ Hope that answers your question. ~**Mischief**~
2016-05-24 23:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you speaking of Marriage????? Don't do that, your to young. Trust me I know, I got married at 16... Now love letter, that's a different story. Just tell her on paper how you feel about her, just don't make the mistake of asking her how she feels about you.. Make your love note about her not about pumping information from her.. She will feel special if you dedicate your note to the things that are wonderful about her and so forth. If you ask her how she feels about you then she will figure all the sweet mushy stuff was said just to get into her head... Girls love getting love letters so make it special... You will find out how she feels after she gets the letter, It will be all in her actions toward you.. Trust me, you will know.. good luck to you.. Awe to be young!!! Such a long time ago for me... :)
2007-01-16 03:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should be her friend a bit more to c and understand her feelins towards u. Then, when u feel dat her feelins for u are same as urs. See a wonderful chance to propose her. Not by luv letter. Say her directly. Best of luck. I hope she also luvs u.
2007-01-16 02:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait a while to propose. Marrige is kinda serious... I was together with my boyfriend for 10 years before he proposed to me, and now there are no doubts and we have already gone through the tough years...which for me were the college years. Just be cute and hold hands and french kiss like normal kids. Don't need to grow up too fast. :)
2007-01-16 02:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you mean "propose" your way to young to marry but if you mean you want to go "steady" well just ask her and go for it. either she will say "yes" or "no". You will have a quicker answer if you ask rather than writting a love letter. Just tell her how you feel and GOOD LUCK
2007-01-16 02:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love letters are so sweet and she will keep it forever :)
Just tell her how fondly you are of her. How she makes you life better. You can talk to her about everything. Maybe say you want a future with her and list details :)
2007-01-16 02:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋