My husband and i are seperated and i am 8 months pregnant. He is the one who left but is still emotional there for me and the baby.
Last night i found out he omited something and it should have made me VERY mad, but it didn't. I could feel that i just didn't care. Like i just could't allow myslef to care about him anymore, not with my heart anyway. what does that mean? have i fallen out of love?
2007-01-16 02:44:42 · 15 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont know if you have fallen out of love but I can tell you after someone hurts you over and over you become numb the pain they cause you. For me what your feeling is the begining of falling out of love. Everyone differs to what they can emotionally handle. When your through, your through. Good luck to you!
2007-01-16 02:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by travncangraham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if you've done a good job of distancing yourself from him. I think Lost&Confused summed it up fairly well (and thanks for that L&C). If he left you, I think you don't need to listen to the others about making a decision while your pregnant. It sounds to me as if the decision has already been made. At least the two of you get along so it won't be a strain on the baby's relationship with the two of you. I think you've taken a very major step by realizing yourself that you've fallen out of love with him. Focus on the baby and be happy for the two of you!
Best Wishes!
2007-01-16 11:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Therese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are 8 months pregnant. Your emotions and body chemistry are all out of whack. Don't make any serious decisions about your life, like filing for divorce, until you've had the baby and settled back to normal.
2007-01-16 10:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to tell with the info you have given to us. Maybe your body is just trying to protect you and the baby by just becoming completely numb to anything. Your body does strange things during pregnancy. Maybe you need to just really do some soul searching and figure out what you want in the longterm. I hope everything works out for you...whatever makes you and the child happiest. Good luck!
2007-01-16 10:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you are very angry with him and that you do still have plenty of love left in your heart for him but you are denying your love for him because you are allowing your anger to grow inside of you and you are letting it overpower your true feelings. If he is trying to apologize to you but you do not feel that you want him back in your life then you should let him know that you do not want a relationship with him, but you should not deprive him the right to be a father, and to be in his child life, (if the child that you are carrying belongs to him).
That would be totally selfish, and very unfair to your child if you were to do something like that.
Good Luck with your decision.
God Bless!
2007-01-16 11:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are confused right now, If you are asking yahoo Q&A. I feel for you and your unborn child. you need a stable invoirment to bring your newborn home to. I hope you two can work things out and try to be a family. It take alot of love and now you will have to give him the understanding,patience, and support. that's what marriage is about giving, not just recieving
2007-01-16 10:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hearts tangled and it doesn't know what to feel or has felt to much.
Fallen out of love or just not wanting to be hurt anymore or life goes on and its time too.......
maybe this separation was what you needed to go smoothly.
If you feel this way and have tried everything to save your marriage...you are at peace with what your heart is telling you.
Best wishes for you and your baby ...in whatever you decide.
2007-01-16 11:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "fall out of love." Love is a verb, meaning an action word--you actually have to work at it. You haven't fallen out of love, you've just gotten lazy or you're not committed to your marriage.
2007-01-16 11:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when you lose the emotional side of things when arguing, you no longer are in love with the person. The passion is gone...
2007-01-16 10:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u havent fallen out of love. In the bible, it states that once you have fallen in love, you will be in love forever. Love is eternal. But if you were never in love in the first place, u could have fallen out of "like".
2007-01-16 14:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by okay. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋