My friend and I have known eachother for bout 4 years now and been "hookin up" for bout a year and a half. I've had boyfriends off and on during that time that he was aware of and knew I broke up with because I had really strong feelings for him. Its been just me and him for about 6 months now and I have gotten no commitment. He works for the State and I have a "not so good rep" with the authorities but No Record. I understand he has a serious rep to keep but I Dont understand why me being his Girlfriend needs to be such a secret anymore. I also hear rumors bout him and another person. Im so confused! I am 22 and he is 36 yrs old, I think he should be damn happy he's got himself a hott peice like this. I've tried to tell him that I wont wait forever but nothing seems to work. I also met this really sweet guy last week. Is it time for me to move on?
2007-01-16 02:19:41 · 9 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes please move on! PLEEEEEAS!!!!!
Why would he commit if he can get it when he wants. And even if he did commit to you at this point, could you trust that he's committing because he truly wants you or because he doesnt want you with anyone else? Let it go.
2007-01-16 02:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Miss B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through a similar thing right now, myself. And what I am in the process of doing is telling my "friend" that I want to move forward with him. No more of the long-distance, hush-hush stuff. Either he means what he says (that he loves me), or he doesn't (or he is just not ready to be ready). If your friend isn't proud to be seen and exclusively associated with you, hon, you have to move on. And yes, I do tell myself the same thing. BTW, I totally understand the age thing - I'm 32 and my "friend" is 45. Another guy is in the picture for me, as well. (And he's 48! Lol! Next guy I fall for will probably be in a wheelchair in a nursing home- :P )
2007-01-16 02:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by alysion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to throw in the towel. You waited long enough for this guy to come around and he hasn't. Its best that you forget about him and move on, who knows, once you do, he might commit!
I just went through a two year "thing" with a friend of mine....luck just wasn't on my side when he got married to his roommate in Vegas. :o( I just wasted 2 years! What a waste....blah.
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-16 04:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on him - if he wants you he'll come back and make a committment, if not you know he never had any intention of doing so and you're better off. And as for your previous question - DON'T buy him a birthday present!!!!
2007-01-16 02:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by L x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend dosen't ant a real realationship(g/f)or b/f just be cool and take it slow somtimes people are overbraring and it turn s other off.Lay low be Cool they will get the messege.If they don't then MOVE ON you haven't lost nothing..If a person is your friend they will get it.
2007-01-16 02:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
exactly what evol said, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, not long ago, & i still loved him, but about 2 weeks later, i hated him.....
but, i'm not saying that u should hate him, u should just find someone else....
.......if u need more advise, all i got is, i've never found anyone 2 be with in 6 months now, & usually, I get a boyfriend really fast....
......so......ttyl......
2007-01-16 02:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~áƦMissáƦSENáƦ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Don't waste your time on him.
2007-01-16 02:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by hhfe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your "friend" is using you. Dump him. MOVE ON!
2007-01-16 02:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋