we feel pressured to have sex cos now we're married, but its so nerve-wrecking for both of us , how can we relax and jus have really good foreplay?
2007-01-16 02:15:25 · 6 answers · asked by curiousee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make it a game. Tell your spouse that you want to see how far you two can go without actually doing it. You can really drive each other crazy. Very Spicy....
2007-01-16 02:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to spice up any relationship is for both partners to feel secure enough to share their fantasies and wishes with the other, niether of you need to agree to anything you object to, but either should be able to suggest anything without being looked at as a monster. My wife and I keep the communication lines open, have a great sex life. She still surprises me
2007-01-16 04:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a babysitter for a little while who will take care of your two precious children when he isn't working. Find someone who is in high school/college because they will probably charge only $10 max. On the weekends make time for each other. Have a date night, even if that means making kids go to bed early or giving them a nap for an hour or two. Make your boyfriend a priority of the relationship will be doomed.
2016-05-24 23:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having trouble understanding the source of the pressure. How is it that you two feel presured to have sex????
2007-01-16 02:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always be a Lady in Church and a Ho in bed
2007-01-16 02:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent a porn
2007-01-16 02:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by themom95 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋