how to scare people to not to mess with me ?

Question

everybody takes exception to my normal conversation and gets angry....whereas they react diffently if someone else says something stupid.....actually i have lost the art of speaking/dealing with people ....... nobody wants to loose from me......I considered the weakest guy coz of my introvert nature and weak physique.......i dont know how to survive ?

Answer 1

watch captin jean luc picard

when he wants to be taken seriously he talks strongly (without shouting) and puts some bass into his voice (from the diafram) and does not raise his eybrows or have any nervousness of apearince.

tip two! Stop making self depreciating jokes. never mention your own weaknesses. as it gives bullys amunition against you. let them find out your weaknesses for themselves.

Answer 2

Your display of introvert nature and weak physique may be the main reason for their indifferent attitude towards you, xyz643. But why should you get scared of people surrounding you. Even weakest insects like ants etc. are living in the midst of wild and strong animals like tigers, lions and elephants. When the weakest are surviving, being the most superior living creature, nothing forbids you to lead your own life. Be bold, my good friend. A coward dies everyday but a brave man dies only once. You choose people who are benevolent and friendly with you and interact with them freely. You try to display the things in which you are wiser and stronger. You have certain good qualities what many others do not. Make them to realise what kind of person you are. Do not exhibit your weak points. Good luck!

Answer 3

I can relate to you because I've been there. I was skinny, wore glasses, and worse, had acne. People picked on me because I had low self-esteem. Because you lack confidence, trying to be scary won't work. You'll just look nerdy and cause yourself even more problems.
Instead, go to your local library and check out these books:

"How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie.
Any books pertaining to learning leadership.
Books about actualization.
Books on building confidence.

Instead of fighting who you are, why not be the best "you"? You know, the kind of person that everyone else flocks to. Let your charisma draw to you the kind of people you like to be around. Anyone can do it with just a little practice. Make yourself the leader instead of the follower. I did.

Answer 4

just think Positive and chat politely, Never try to influence others without hearing them.
I hope there is no problem U should join The Art of Living classes and Also Spoken English classes.
When u will join the classes very soon u will find a lot of difference in Ur self and that will result in a Decent Life.

Enjoy the Precious Life.

Answer 5

Hmmm, more information as far as surviving is concerned. If you live in a rich upper class home with all the luxuries of life but have poor personal relationships you should call RAFT. If you live in a primitive Indonesian society on a third world island where you hunt wild pigs every day to live, then you should perform an extreme act such as gutting a pig with your teeth to prove your manhood.

Answer 6

If you have survive all this then you are the strongest person in my book.

But you can change a little at a time so you will not be isolated.

Answer 7

am confused here:

your title says one thing, your texr below another.
your title says i want to scare people off (i want no contact), your text says i want toi be able to communicate (i want contact).
if this is giving off a mixed message, could u be giving off a mixed message to others?
smile, it makes all things better:)

Answer 8

Stand up for yourself...you are not as weak as you think.

Answer 9

lol ur such a douche get ready to be stuffed in lockers

Answer 10

Talk mean and give evil looks.