my friends and i had a buddy that died in september and his b-day is comming up and we all want to throw a get togeather should we or not
2007-01-16 00:28:48 · 6 answers · asked by bloody illusions 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the gathering is a amazing plan to remember your buddy ... and about coping with your grief well my best advise i could give out to you is the same thing i have been doing since a couple of months and its start waking on the beach ! its amazing !! the feeling when you walk on the beach or near it is great.. maybe its just the fresh air getting in your lungs and that stuff that helps you out but in the same time you realize something bigger ! and hopefully you would !
2007-01-16 00:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting through greif is a day at a time thing. Get together and remember your friend. Talk about all things you shared and remember about them. Time does heal. I speak from experince. I lost a daughter in 2000 she was 17. Hang in there it does get better.
2007-01-16 00:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is entirely up to you - if you feel that a celebration would help you feel better then yeh, why not? I lost my sister in June and on what would have been her 30th a few weeks ago I went to the cemetary and took her a cake and sung happy birthday to her. Different things work for different people. A friend of mine was killed in car accident about a year ago and his parents still threw him a massive 21st birthday. Just do what you think is right and what makes you feel good :-) Its hard but im told it gets easier...good luck!
2007-01-16 00:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! You've been mourning him since September. Now it's time to celebrate his life.
2007-01-16 00:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a really great idea. Remember to celebrate his life and not dwell on his passing.
2007-01-16 00:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it and talk about the good times and how you miss your friend time will heal all hearts
2007-01-16 00:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋