2007-01-16 00:20:15 · 21 answers · asked by Baby_ Frizell 09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I got married really young and i wouldn't suggest doing it. It can work but it is really hard. I have been with my husband since I was 16 and we are still married. I didn't get to do a lot of things that the kids were doing because of this. No I wouldn't trade it for anything but it is still very hard. Give it some thought before you just jump into marriage. If you two are truly meant for each other marriage can wait. Just please give it a lot of thought before you do it. and do whats right for you. Best of luck to the both of you.
2007-01-16 00:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It isn't has bad has everyone tries to make it out to be.People will tell you that marriage between Young people aren't successful.That's not true.There are way more marriages between older people breaking up than the younger ones.Just watch divorce court sometime.I have been with my husband since I was 17 and he was 20.We have been together 17 years and married 15 of them.And In all of the years we have been married us and his sister and brother in law are the only two couples that we know whom are still married.A lot of marriages break up due to immaturity and selfishness.I am not saying everyone should get married young.But you can't blame age for divorce.If you are a poorly matched couple you are doomed at any age.I am glad I got married when I did. I a grateful that I have been able to share these last 17 years with not only my husband but also my best friend.I don't feel like I have missed out on anything.Having him to share my life experiences with has made them that much better.
2007-01-16 12:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No!! Well... it depends on how old you want to get married... my sister got married to her husband when they were both 23 and waited 5 years to have their first baby. They travelled together in those 5 years all around the world. She says it was the best thing she ever did cos they grew up together as a couple and have done everything they've wanted to do together before starting a family. Having children is wonderful, but it can cause a rift in a husband/wife relationship if they've been together for a long time... She still says it was the best thing she ever did.
2007-01-16 08:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The newspapers in my state are full of divorce listings of young couples who thought marriage would work for them.
Most marriges with young people today, for one reason or another. Usually a marriage will last from 9 months to 3 years and that's about it. A major portion of that time will be spent apart and seperated from each other as the divorce process is in the works.
I recommend that you should wait until you have more life experience and are more financially secure, money problems in most cases leads to divorce. Also, in some cases young people still want to ram around with their friends and party while their spouse doesn't. This leads to conflict. I'd give it a few more years. Marriage isn't something to rush into.
2007-01-16 08:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how young u r tlkin bout. that's not necessary ture though, i mean a relationship depends on u. not cause u get marry young means that if would not work. for some pple after being so long in a relationship they get tired of it and tend to test the water a little. but through it all it depends on u, the reason why pple say the older u r is better is because then u r able to make decisions, and u know wat u want.
2007-01-16 08:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Marriges can be doomed from the start no matter how old you are. It's just that the logic is that the older one gets, the more emotionally stable the person is to be in such a great committment. Other reasons like financially stabilty also play a part. But age is not the cause.
2007-01-16 08:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My perspective is, you do a lot of growing in your 20’s. You may realize the person you thought you loved, will change. It happens a lot. I’m not saying don’t do it, but why rush? Why not just enjoy your time together? I don’t understand why people want to get married so young.
2007-01-16 08:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of it depends on you. some people get married when they are young and stay together till they are old and die! some people are only together for a little while then they separate/divorce! so really you need to think about it really hard and figure out wether it is best for you both!
GOOD LUCK!!!!! i hope you are very happy together
2007-01-16 08:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by lz_baxter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. My lady and I were high school sweethearts who married the day after graduation 45 years ago, and it just gets better every day. We married young, had our children young and we all grew up together. Life is good.
2007-01-16 08:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a girl. If so, I would be careful since guys may want to marry u and yet they don't have their life together and so you might get stuck with a guy who is going nowhere. Also, it is good to wait until you are wiser because young guys may get you pregnant and run back to their momma.
2007-01-16 08:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by JiveSly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋