My family was very happy for nearly 15 years. 2 months ago, my husband betrayed me and dated with another woman. When I knew this, he decided to go with her, despite we have a happy family with very cute boy. I agreed with his decision, but I still grieve when he express his passion feeling with his new love. His lover still live with her husband who dosen't know about this thing. They are very happy now and my husband forget all things of our lives. Will they be happy forever? If not, how long? I want to know this thing. I have to find my love but I need more time to recover.
2007-01-16 00:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by MIB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What do you care if he is happy? Tell me you are not waiting for him to return to you. How long?
You need to get a backbone. Quit today sitting around waiting for him to give you your life back. you deserve better, and your children do too.
Call an lawyer today, and file for abandonment and adultery. Get child support and alimony if you have no job skills.
Then get an education, and a job. Support your kids. Spend your time with them, telling how wonderful they are, and how proud you are of them and their accomplishments. Never talk bad about their dad, EVER, since they are half him, and it wounds them. They and you love him despite what he has done. Let them love their dad, but make them understand that you (and they) have standards for being well treated.
Give yourself the luxury of the gym,.and work out your hurt and anger, and pain. Eat right and stay sober.Never bring a guy home to meet your kids. Be a good role model for your kids.
One day he may decide he has screwed up and wants his family back. Then you can invite him to your home, and show him your hot new body and introduce him to your new LOVER who appreciates you.
The best revenge is happiness! Dare to take your life in hand and go for it. Good luck!
2007-01-17 02:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long do you want him to be happy for, if not long then you contact the lovers husband and bring them all misery. What have you to loose, they never gave you or your child any consideration at all.
How dare he rub his so called happiness in your face when he simply ups and leaves you and his child.. Grieving is normal , you were together a long time and now doing it hard.. Heal your pain, it takes time , dont be there to catch him should his new love fail and it will eventually. Someone will be out there to care and love you for the special person you are
2007-01-16 00:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon my heart goes out to you... but you know what there is something good about this even if you can see it now.. hes moved on and gave you a chance to find real love outthere it would be worst for him to stay and totally waste your time. take a chance give your self time to heal and move on believe it or not im in your same situation but my husband refuse to terminate the relationship he wants his cake the frosting and eat it too, he is selfish.. you just make sure that your husband made his final desision and even if it doesnt work with his new partner you are not the one to take him back.. don't become a welcome mat for him. Move on hon you can do it because you have the strength that God gave us women to make it.. good luck.
2007-01-16 00:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for you, the same thing has happened to me only after 25 years of marriage. My suggestion do not worry about them, work on yourself only...if you want him back he will take notice. I am going on nine months of hell now with my situation...trust me i feel your pain.
What your husband is doing is normal...my wife took down all family photo's in her new house. It's scary how someone can let a new lover control his or her mindset. Remember girl take care of you and your kids...get counselling...stay away from he said she said...let him screw his life on his own and then watch when he fails. Take care...
2007-01-16 00:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I continually say Merry Christmas and chuffed New 3 hundred and sixty 5 days and if someone says to me chuffed holiday journeys I only smile at them and say thanks and that i wish you've an really Merry Christmas and chuffed New 3 hundred and sixty 5 days too!
2016-11-24 20:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer question is, Will they be happy forever? * well, we do not know i don't want to answer unsurely but the very important is you can just pray and ask what you need through making a conversation to God (if you are close) then, observe what happens.
2007-01-16 00:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by CriZzie ツ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because they started something by both CHEATING-it will be their karma that one or the other gets cheated on, you can always give "karma" a kick in the a** by notifying her lover of her indiscretion and her HAPPY HOMEWRECKER STATUS...
2007-01-16 00:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her husband and let him know what's going on ....then move on with your life....good luck
2007-01-16 00:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOn't talk to him about his love for someone else. Are you sick and masochistic?
2007-01-16 00:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno what will happen... you thought you were happy for 15 years, that didn't last... could be another 15 years for him or 2 weeks..
2007-01-16 00:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋