im 13 and as i said i think im pregnant
how will i tell my mom? (shes gonna kill me)
should i just hide it?
i feel lost and that i did somthin real bad
i need advice
2007-01-14 23:52:53 · 12 answers · asked by Ja`Lisa 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i cant answer you. what do you know about a wa**. slut.people like you make mankind less intelligent.
we cannot survive an allien attack.
2007-01-14 23:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Elcie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell an adult you trust like your mother or father because you can not deal with this all alone on your own.
There are health issues involved with pregnancy which means you need to see a doctor to be examined.
You are going to have to tell your mother sooner or later, and the sooner you tell her the sooner you can get the medical care you need.
She will probably be upset because she is your mother. I would be upset too, if my 13 year old daughter was pregnant, but you really need to tell her now. She will probably be angry, but she would want to know.
If you are not comfortable telling your mother right now, maybe you have another adult family member you could talk with who could help you tell your mother, but you need to tell someone right now.
2007-01-15 00:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I don't really have any other advice but to tell your parents and deal with it the best you can. But please think of the baby when you do! I f you decide to have it please make sure you can care for it. If you can't please consider adoption! Oh and Angela C, you are wrong about condoms, I am pregnant right now and I used a condom every single time. My mom had me and my two siblings the same way! Condoms don't always work!!! ^, ,^
2007-01-15 00:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by macaan87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did do something really bad!!!! You had sex at thirteen, and obviously unprotected sex at that! I am sorry but in this day and age when condoms are so readily available there is really no excuse for stupidity!!! If you really think you are mature enough for sex, you should be mature enough to use birht control!!! I hope you are not pregnant because no baby deserves to have children for parents.
2007-01-15 00:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't hide it. You won't be able to do anything but think about it. Try talking to your mom - yes, she will get made but she'll get over it and come to terms with it. She'll have the best advice for you.
If you can't talk to her, then find someone you can.
I can't tell you whether to keep it or not as i don't know you or your situation.
Just don't be afraid - you have to deal with this (and soon)...be strong!
2007-01-14 23:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you are not sure about pregnancy yourself, if you hide now chances are that the child will grow and everybody know. But if you are not pregnant the chances are that you will become soon.
Better tell her about it and let her decide what to do. She will help you in any case.
2007-01-15 00:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by AnSID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get ahead is to tell your mom. Sit down with her and explain her everything. She's the only one who can help you out.
2007-01-15 00:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by dexter_theboygenius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to some responsible adult about it so you can be sure.
Well having sex at your age is not good but see an adult you can trust because you may not be pregnant and need to find out.
2007-01-14 23:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your mother.
Grown up games, grown up consequences. Tell your mother. She will be hurt and horrified, but she will not kill you. She will not hate you. She will help you (once she gets over the shock).
2007-01-14 23:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hide it from your mom, she may be upset but she will be there for you... take a test and find out for sure.
2007-01-14 23:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋