Hi, its me again, I just want to add that he wants us to move together to a different country and try to make a life with me there... want to do?
2007-01-14 23:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by Lilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love my friends, I've loved women, but being in love is something else. The feeling must be mutual; when I've been in love the feeling is like we are one person sometimes. Maybe he really likes being with you but it's not love. A female friend of mine asked her partner to get married, he had to "go away for a time" to see if he wanted to get married - it ended in disaster. If he cannot say "I love you" straight back maybe it's a bad idea. I do hope you can sort it out.
Just think of this saying that helps me from time to time
"where there's doubt there's no doubt" which means listen to that little voice in the back of your head.
2007-01-15 00:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by davidmachin164@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do Hmmmmmmmm!!!!!!
He is not in love with you. Girl I would not move across the street with someone like that.
A piece of meat that loves you can be found on any street in the world.
If total commitment is not part of the relationship. You should walk {NO RUN} away from this guy.
You are fixing to move to a foreign land with some one that is not in love with you so you can be there to have convenient sex with. What are you going to do when he finally finds someone he is in love with. IT WILL HAPPEN all people on earth need someone to be in love with.even you.
2007-01-14 23:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, I don't know if I can move to another country if I knew of his revelation. It's easy to walk away from someone if you are not in love. It sounds like hes' trying really hard to fall in love with you and it's just not that easy. You can't make this happen, it just does. If I were you, I'd be too afraid to pick up and move away fromy my family and friends. Listen to your gut, it's usually right. Good luck.
2007-01-15 00:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you cannot bring yourself to dishonor his wife any longer. That he should stop this fantasy and get back to what really matters in life, his family. Stop letting him victimize you - and use you. You are believing in someone that doesn't exist - his words are mistruths. You are worth more than this game that is destroying another person. You are at the center of a relationship built on lies.
2007-01-15 01:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like my wife... she says she loves me, but she doesn't act like she is in love with me.... treats me like a brother or a roommate... after 20+ years of marriage.
So... becareful if you don't want to be in such a relationship. It might break your heart as much as mine has been broken.
2007-01-15 01:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it if you can't trust your life on him. he may cheat you and being in another country together means moroe trouble if he dumps you. no offense but just be prepared for the worse. (:
2007-01-14 23:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by undercovergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, do what you want!
2007-01-14 23:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your name lilly too? gee I'll bet you r HACKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 02:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋