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2007-01-14 23:07:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What is wrong with you? Boyfriend in the picture? You need to educate yourself about unwanted pregnancy and apply yourself in school so that you can have a better future. Look around and see how many girls have babies. Do you want to join their club? Talk to your mother about how you feel about this 18 year old.
2007-01-14 23:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
An 18 year old will expect a lot of sex, which means a lot of chances of becoming pregnant and/or contracting STD's all of which could change your life for the worse permanently. If you truly like this man than go for it, but be careful. Also if you do decide to have sex with him remember that it would be considered statutory rape since he is an adult and you are a child and he could be considered a sex offender the rest of his life, after he gets out of jail, that is.
2007-01-15 08:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Maroo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well there is really nothing you can do, by law a 18 year old is not allowed to date anyone under 16 so if you date him yo uare risking putting him in jail, do you really want to risk that?? Can you really live with yourself knowing your the reason someone is behind bars? Trust me it is not a good feeling at all.
I really suggest going after someone your age because all you really are to this 18 year old is jail bait and he would be stupid to date you.
2007-01-15 11:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be ok you two dating as long as ... 2nd base only, at 15 1/2 3rd base and leave home runs for as close to 16 as possible.
However you need to take into account certain things.
You aint a 18, He is. He can do things you can't or are not ready for as he was not ready at your age.
Ie Drink alcohol (has a different effect on someone your age), live away from parents, Go night clubbing. Be ok in illegal raves. 18 rated movies no problem etc.
Also parties he would go to may be far more grown up with drugs going around, being being scarey drunk and things which would be too much for you.
More so he is likely to be going to uni soon. Then what?
Also he is likley to have a job.
You aint ready for that even if you think you are.
Also if you to get shagging ... You have no legal problems but you could drop him in it as the law may see him as a sex offender, and he may go on a register that sees him never travelling or getting jobs with kids. Not to mention inside prision with nasty guys who beat him up and rape him.
Personally I see you two as teenagers and most authourities would see it the same.
Also is this just had 14th birthday and him almost 19 or he is just 18 and you nearly 15? two years diff which would make it 15 and 17 really?
Other thing is he will be more likly to be sexaully active and ready for things you aint readdy for and you may want to please him.
There is nothing immoral about consentual sex.
its just at you age emotionally if things dont go quite right it would be far more stressful for you say if you break up afterdoing it.
Also if you get pregnant it will be far far harder for you.
Note Im not preacing abteinance, saying he is a perve or anything. Just being honest.
So if you want to date ok.
But take it easy in the panties department. Not saying stick exact to the age of concent, close if fine but you aint close yet.
2007-01-15 09:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First thing to do when you like someone: get to know them
second: you're young and don't need to be rushing into a relationship
three: Always be friends before anything else, after all friendship is one of the best things about relationships
And as a final note. Do you think you NEED to be thinking about this sort of thing at your age? Wait for a while and if you still like him a few years perhaps then.
2007-01-15 07:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by osellius 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like some friends of mine. There is a four year age differents between them. He got her pregant. Now they fight alot. They still like each other but since they rushed into dating each other they are still getting to know each other. They started dating 1week after metting. Now she pregant and he has lost his life. She is bossy and don't even let him talk to his best mate. SORRY sorry she pisses me off so much sometimes.
2007-01-15 11:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by LeoJames8-1-08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seeing as he is an adult and your a minor than you can't legally go out with him. Best decision is to find someone your own age.
2007-01-15 15:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it he can be in big trouble if ur mom calls the police on him.
stick to ur peers.
2007-01-15 13:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mario diaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh dont get raped cause thats all he would want from u
2007-01-16 22:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some my age
2007-01-15 10:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋