2007-01-14 23:02:53 · 8 answers · asked by corporate_boy2002 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
that's kind of an abstract question. are you preparing yourself for your first time? are we talking first time lesbian sex, or first time straight sex?
my first time with a girl, I was 16 and very much in love. we'd been a couple for a long time prior to sleeping together, so it sort of happened slowly and lovingly. I don't think I really had any fears because I trusted her and already felt comfortable being physically (and emotinally) close to her.
first time straight sex was age 19, and I was rather drunk and horny. I didn't know the guy exceptionally well, but at the time what I wanted was something physical, not emotional. I think my main fear was that I wouldn't like the sight of his penis (and I didn't, so it was a valid fear!) and also that I wouldn't be great at straight sex due to lack of comfort/attraction to the male body (I'm not sure what the outcome was on that one, but he seemed to enjoy it) ...
anyway, good luck hun. my advice for you would be to wait until you've found someone you love, and are really comfortable with. that way you can discuss your fears with him/her beforehand.
2007-01-14 23:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by hannah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical pain, will there be any, could I be able to bear it. Will I turn into a sl*t after this - will I start wanting sex a lot. Will everyone find out that I did it, what will be female friends think of me.
2007-01-15 04:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Palmer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not understand the question.Imagine having a hard object shove into your rectum,and having the urge to urinate during intercourse sore as hell,for days.If you can imagine this to yourself,then and only then,will you understand fear,as you put it....
2007-01-14 23:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by BOBBIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she would have lots of fears and uncertainties. It's an emotional time and she would feel fully exposed...and then she'd be worried about body image and actual intercourse pain...Yes I would be tough.
2007-01-14 23:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if you are single you are sining.If it is unprotected, aids,Numerous stds.Being another single parent with(unplaned) baby.Possible have to raise the child by your self.Getting caught. The male smearing your name all over.
Think about it for a long time before trying it.
Thanks
Tom B
tomstradeday@yahoo.com
2007-01-15 00:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tom B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of the unknown.
2007-01-15 00:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my first time wasnt anything nice. It hurt....alot. but just make sure that the guy that ur going to b with is clean he uses protection and he loves u....or else it will make the whole experience ten time worse...good luck
2007-01-14 23:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by dana <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fear of death
2007-01-14 23:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by darius 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋