having a baby for some one else?

Question

i have often thought about having a baby for someone else! but dont know were to go to find out more. i had my own child when i was 16 and now at 22 i would like to help others have children. i have already decided that if i did this i would not use my own eggs but i am intrested to find out more! most people i have talked to say that its good thing to do but i should wate untill i am older. what do you think do you know any one who has done this

Answer 1

i think you must be very special person to want to do this amazing thing for someone else i am lucky enough to have two great kids and dont think i could ever have one for someone else but think its great that you think you can but i do think you should wait until you are sure you dont want anymore of your own,because it must be really hard giving a baby to someone else when it has grew inside you for 9 months.good luck xx.

Answer 2

You are wanting to do a wonderful thing but, in my opinion and that is only what it is and that is my opinion, I would wait if I were you. You are so young and should wait til you are a bit older and check into this a bit more. You have to think if it is worth going through all of the medical procedures and then to not have the baby after ward can be a very physiological mess. I am not saying not to do it , I am just saying to really think about it because that would be something that once you start it you cannot stop and if you get the maternal instincts that come along with carrying the baby you cannot go forward with them and love and nurture that baby. You are very sweet and I hope that you think about it a bit more because I wouldn't want to see you get ruined emotionally until you know for sure that you don't want anymore kids for yourself at all. Good luck and God Bless!

Answer 3

At your age, I don't think you should consider it until you are absolutely sure that your family is complete....do you remember how exciting it was to see your first ultrasound, to hear the baby's heartbeat, to feel him move for the first time, to feel him move for the millionth time, to feel him pushing out so hard you can see the outline of his little foot, to realize you are in labor and the baby's on the way, to deliver your baby and hear his first little cry, to count all his fingers and all his toes, the list goes on and on, but do you remember the extrordinary feeling....will you be able to give that baby to someone else without severe mental trauma??? Not at your age. Unless you know the person whom you are doing this for, you will have a very difficult time. I admire your desire to help others to have a child, but you are not ready yet. Wait until you are a little older, have settled into adult and motherhood. Know that your own family is settled and able to understand the sacrifice on your part. Your child isn't ready to understand why you aren't keeping the baby and will develope feelings, no matter how much you explain the situation, that you might give them to another family too. You are very noble, but must wait to help out in that fashion. Good Luck with whatever you decide.

Answer 4

That's a very sweet thing to do!But I would wait until I was a little older and do all the research that you can.Your hormones may get the better of you when you are pregnant and you may decide that you want another baby yourself?I would actually consider it my self,as I do know people who are trying to conceive at the moment with no luck.

Answer 5

Someone had a baby for a friend of mine. It all worked out very well, but they were best friends and had tried all sorts of other fertility treatment first and had lots of counselling.

Answer 6

you have make sure its really something you want to do i wouldnt go into it lightly you have to think you got carry a baby for 10 months and then give it away is that wat you could do

Answer 7

I've tried with no luck.