I'm boring, I don't talk much. But wid sum ppl I get on well and talk ALOT. I asked them if I shud change my habit of talking too much crap and make them listen to my sarcastic jokes, they say... they love me the way I am. Others say ..... I need to change and be more exciting.
2007-01-14 22:39:00 · 17 answers · asked by Black 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do what makes you comfortable with yourself. Others will adapt.
2007-01-14 22:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, by your question, you actually said who your true friends are! Be yourself. Those who accept you the way you are are your real friends, the others don't matter! It is wrong to change yourself for someone else, be it a partner, friend or spouse. We are who we are - be happy in who you are, proud to be you! If you can look in a mirror and say to yourself - "Hey, I'm OK. I'm a good person, and a faithful friend" Then s t u f f the rest of them Hon.
2007-01-15 06:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change according to the ppl u r wid, the situation, the mood, its boring to b the same always.
2007-01-15 14:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is wrong, you should be happy about yourself, not matter how much people hate your gut and if you think that you can changed for the people who told you to be exciting and less talk. Well they are wrong, and they are thinking what other people thinking. JUST BE YOURSELF and don't ever think that you will changed for someone else and that where you never be happy
2007-01-15 06:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by sweetgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless your a bad person such as stealing lying unfaithfull demanding incconcederate or just a downer you never have to change and i repeat NEVER have to change. you are you and anybody who wants to be your friend needs to accept that! nobody has the right to tell you to change they may give helpfull pointers everybody needs them here n there but they should NEVER tell you to change! be yourself dont be somebody everybody else wants you to be! plz dont do that to yourself! trust me i kno ive been there. if you change for somebody then after a while your gonna be lost and your not gonna who you are and thats the most hardest thing you can put yourself through
2007-01-15 07:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by kelse v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are fond of talking r least bothered about the sentiments of others. They must learn to listen and talk on subjects that interests the others.
2007-01-15 06:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that sum people like u means that u need not change ur self. but u shud try to socialize ur self. dont limit ur circle. try the same magic, uve tried on ur frnds on others too.and always beware of people who advice u to change.
2007-01-15 07:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is that you are happy with who you are as self image has a direct impact on who you surround yourself with and what you can give back in return.
2007-01-15 06:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question that matters is "Are you happy with yourself?" Be yourself....that is the best advise I can give you. Other people will always have varied opinions of you, but what really matters is that you are being your true self and you are happy inside. You will never be able to please everyone so be happy with yourself.
2007-01-15 06:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are YOU most comfortable with? You should never have to "try" to be the real you. If you are changing for others, then that is not genuine to your true self.
2007-01-15 08:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋