hay!!.. well the other week mayeb about 2 weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex and it was portected with a condom and after it we checked to see if there were holes we filled it up with water and there was no holes at all.. i was still so worried i went and got a pregnacy test i took two and they were both negative but than i found out that you can only tell a couple of days before your period is due. so yea im so worried everyone keeps saying i cant be pergnant if the condom didnt break so what do i do im stressing out about it and i cant sleep or nothing please help!! xxx
2007-01-14 22:23:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You aren't pregnant.
If having sex freaks you out this much, maybe you shouldn't have it any more.
2007-01-14 23:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Condoms are not 100% effective.
Abstainance is 100%. As abstainance is no fun, it doesn't stress you out like this.
Until you are BOTH committed to having children, don't play games that sometimes end up producing little ones!
Some people put more thought into their careers than into the birth of a child, and it's subsequent raising.
A child should not be the result of a game of roulette, but the product of a loving relationship, and an intentional approach to adding a human life to this beautiful planet we live on.
2007-01-14 22:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lion J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't pregnant, and you obviously should not be having sex, since you aren't ready for it. Sex is NOT a game for children to play so they can feel all grown up. Go to the doctor and get a prescription for the pill and don't have sex again until you take more responsibility for your actions. The only thing you did right was use a condom.
2007-01-14 22:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, did you not learn that sex can get you pregnant? If you don't want to get pregnant don't have sex. Protection is not a "cure all" to not getting pregnant. You are obviously young or you wouldn't be freaking out this bad. I have the feeling that you just lost something and now you are worried that you might get pregnant so just relax and remember that sex is what get you pregnant. Oh, and by the way, it can get you diseases too; maybe you have a disease.
Sorry to be so harsh but I think that you should have waited till you got married.
2007-01-14 22:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not?? -_-""...how can the sperm reach you since the condom is still intact?...haha...no holes right...you are just scared of having babies. So relax la...you also took 2 tests already. Nth will happen. No more sex next time?...its better off since you get so worried.
2007-01-14 23:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it again.........my neice just had a baby boy at 14,,,she let him talk her into it,, he denied the child his father just so happened to be the police seargent at the time,,he wound up loosing his job my sister is now raising her baby,and her baby's baby,,,even though she is a good mother,,she has to be home schooled and was totally rediculed and let down by her preppy friends,,this was also from condom protection but hair can sure put a small enough hole in it...i would consider bringing the issue up to a fammily member to get on birth control but abstinance is the best prevention......
2007-01-14 23:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by lowerthanaslave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say most likely not if the condom didnt break. did you have sex near the time of ovulation? like about midcycle? if it wasnt even asround this time i wouldnt worry so much. why are you so worried this particular time? is it your first time having sex? did your boyfriend ejaculate? even if he did i wouldnt be so worried. i think you are in the clear
2007-01-18 20:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by articulate02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you a virgin before doing it?
If so don't worry. Its just the worry when you first do it. The next few times it will be less and less.
2007-01-14 22:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Spell of Swordly goodness 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you so tense? i dont understand... you know you are not pregnant... yet you are just overreacting..Relax you are not.. if the condom didnot break
2007-01-14 22:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Richa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't pregnant.
2007-01-15 00:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋