Hi, I will be getting married soon.... I am bit scared as I m bit shy...Tell me how i can prepare so that I won't become pregnant very first night.
2007-01-14 22:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
no one gets pregnant the very first night... all the best for your marriage, you can have pills
2007-01-14 22:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Richa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well Madam..
Stop getting cold feet about your first night.
no one can guarantee that you can or cant become pregnant in the very first intercourse that you have with your husband . It would depend on a lot of factors.
Usually the first experience is a bit painful for certoian couples, owing to loss of natural barriers if they exist.
No preparatons required madam. Just relax and enjoy the feel. The most you can do is ask your husband to wear condoms.. perhaps u will have to buy them and keep them with you for your husband to use. He is very much unlikely to come with the idea of using a condom in his first night. Thats where you have to convince him.
All the best to you!
2007-01-18 12:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Sapphire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... many people do consummate their wedding on their very first night but i mean... i can't say much since im just 15 years old XD ( sry bout that <.< )
Eitherways, the best way would be abstenence ( however u spell it <.< )... really... i mean... there is no other sure way except that... sure using a preventive tool might prolly help in ensuring u dont get pregnant but i mean... its definitely not 100%.
But you know... if you really want to consummate your wedding ( or your husband does ) but you dont want to get pregnant... use a preventive measure or seek medical aid from a doctor who would prescribe you medicine to prevent it. Its really that simple. Hope i helped o.O
2007-01-14 22:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Priya you need not be scared for what is going to be a routine in your life after marriage, just as you brush your teeth or comb your hair. Your main responsibility is to satisfy your husband and so dont decide or plan anything without consuting him. He might have a different idea altogether. Incase you want to know how to go about in this aspect then be more specific and then it will be explained. Otherwise your husband might be a professional to practically demontrate it to you.. GOOD LUCK, bye..
2007-01-15 19:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jus4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person u're getting married is he known to u. how are ur mutual conversation .... its totally depends upon that also ask him whether he is fond of children or not... how will u take the decision alone.. for this
and it happens very seldom that at first attempt women get pregnant... there are chances 65 ::35 so cant say... sorry this wasn't ur reply but ur question was also incomplete
2007-01-16 04:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by sreeja_611 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better Buy a condom or have some birth control pills. Or else you openly say your mate that i don want to be pregnant so earlier.
2007-01-15 18:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by veekay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay well i think you should make sure you have condoms and get the morning after pill just incase or go on the pill if your that worried.. make sure ya check for holes in the condom and make sure ur man puts the condom on right.. good luck and i hope you have a wonderful wedding xx
2007-01-14 22:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not a definite way to say that you will get pregnant or not. But one sure way is to not get intimate. Why wouldn't you want to get pregnant on your honey moon I think that would be romantic.
2007-01-14 22:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear priya dont get scared and enjoy ur sex life,nothing to worry at all ,best to prevent pregnancy is CONDOM. its safe dont you worry and have fun and wish u a very happy honemoon.
2007-01-15 06:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by mory k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use protection(condoms), that would be the very best way.
2007-01-14 22:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by dexter_theboygenius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋