Perhaps the first time you were just lucky. Stop putting pressure on yourself. Give it 6 months (or if you are very worried then go now) then go along and see your doctor to be referred for some tests, when you are over 35 i think you are eligible straight away as time is precious for you(sorry) Perhaps when you have had your mind put at rest it will happen for you or there may be something the fertility specialist can give you. I am seeing one at the moment and she is fantastic, i have been started on Clomid to boost my ovulation as we have been trying for nearly 3 years. She will check you have eggs left and make sure your tubes arent scarred etc, she will also check your partner is ok. It really is worth it for piece of mind and they are very professional. Good luck x
2007-01-14 22:39:27
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answered by British*Bird 5
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buy a ovulation kit and start testing 2 weeks after the first day of your last period . test your urine same time every day pref first morning pee to detect hormone changes yo should be able to check down below geta discharge like the clear runny white of a egg thats when your ovulating. missionary position the best after youve had sex stay on yor back with a couple of pillows under your bum and stay there for bout 20 mins give swimmers a chance 2 get where their supposed to be hope this works
2007-01-15 05:53:02
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answered by claired 1
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Relax! your body is able to pick up on your stress and that in itself makes it harder to fall pregnant. Go with the flow and if no luck soon seek medical advice as there are simple blood tests that are available that tell you whether or not you are ovulating and if further fertility options are required.
2007-01-15 05:43:02
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answered by Desperate Mummy 5
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Just relax - getting in a panic won't help and sometimes it can take months for a normal pregnancy, doctors won't even see you until you've been trying for a year or so.
Apparently reverse cowboy or doggy style deliver the sperm to exactly the right region to optimise pregnancy though - good luck.
2007-01-15 05:26:35
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answered by chillipope 7
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Have you tried to get professional help from a fertility specialist. The older you are, the harder it is to conceive. Try to find out when you are most fertile in your monthly cycle and then try to hit the bulls-eye.
2007-01-15 05:34:55
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answered by Dell 1
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At the age you are, it IS going to take longer because you are probably not ovulating every month. You need to give it at least 6 months. Then go and see a doctor.
2007-01-15 05:28:38
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answered by Ricecakes 6
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Be patient.
My wife's mother is neatly 40 years older than her, and there were no special treatments etc. in those days.
Keep trying, and good luck.
2007-01-15 10:53:02
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answered by Anonymous
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try www.fertilityfriend.com
www.babycentre.co.uk
i got pg without trying when i was younger but then like you tried for mths with no results until i bought a clearblue fertility monitor i got one free by doing a fertility study and got pg in the 1st mth and now have a baby boy
2007-01-15 15:06:50
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answered by Anonymous
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well when my mom was 35 it took 3 years to get preg but you should call a doctor see whats to do
2007-01-15 05:33:59
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answered by lori7642 3
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Buy an ovulation test kit, that is what my wife is using, she is 38 also.
2007-01-15 05:21:35
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answered by Anonymous
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