hi..i'm gladys and i'm 16 years old.. i'm not pregnant but i'm looking for adoptive parents.its difficult to find it cause almost of all adoptive parents looking for birthmothers, babies,and kids under 5 years. i need them so much,but i'm not joining any adoptive agencies..Can you help me? Is there any links about adoption for teenagers(international links,i'm not US or Canada citizen)? should i join some of adoption agency?but how? what should i do now? i live with my aunt now(without my parents) but just for a while. and i already checked some of international adoption sites,but it didnt work at all,cause almost of them needed pregnant women and adoptive parents, not a person who wanna be adopted. i have parents but they are not raise me well,since i was baby,i lived with my grandma and granpa,but now,they're getting older,and i didnt stay with them again. Can i join the children's photolistings of waiting children to be adopted?but how? i just wanna have a normal life just like another teenagers,who can wakes up in the morning with happiness,lives with their parents who loves and cares them a lot,goes to school and having fun with their friends. i need parents who can loves,cares,and raises me well. i also wanna finishing my education,especially my high school(my parents didnt have enough money to continue my education). you know,education is very important,and i have a lot of dreams for my future.i mean it. i cant stop fulfil my dreams only cause my parents cant continue my school.thats not fair. I wanna have a life with happiness,cheerful,laughter.and absolutely,love. I ever got some great stress,and i dont know what should i do. i feel trapped. its difficult to explain my condition right now,but its so teribble. Thank you so much for your attention.
2007-01-14 21:02:30 · 5 answers · asked by Gladys T 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Celebrities
You probably need to tell your story to someone who can get it out there like, write to a tv show maybe like, Oprah or Dr. Phil. Cause then you'll be able to tell your story and I'm pretty sure there are a lot of compassionate people out there that will watch it and want to take care of you. Good luck and just know that no matter what you will be okay.
2007-01-14 22:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by adorable 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Through 12th Grade, Education is public and free in the USA (assuming that's where you are).
At 16, how is being adopted going to help you? You need to learn to 1. Accept and like yourself. 2. Find true friends that like and appreciate you. 3. Deal with the fact that your parents may not have done the best job, however that DOESN'T dictate the rest of your life.
Perhaps the last 16 years haven't been ideal, but you can make the next 16 however you want them. You DON'T need someone to adopt you to get educated, have friends, enjoy life, and be successful.
You need a change of attitude, not a change of parents.
2007-01-14 21:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ender 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you should try and go to a halfway house, where they have therapy. then u will be 18 and u can learn about love for urself. dont depend on anyone else to show u, u are almost an adult.
2007-01-15 06:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by jean grey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you read the bible? and if you do please read these verses,,,,,,first psalms 83;18 this is you're father,,,and read,,,joel 2;12-14,,,,and ......acts 15;14 ,,,romans 10;13-15...see also acts 2;21,,,,john 17;3,,,6,,,11,,,12,,,26 please read these and remember i know it must be very hard on you right now but start praying to the true god and he will help you find a way out,,,the whole world is heading in a bad direction so i would consider my spiritual needs before my material needs,,,,i hope you can get help soon.....prey through his son jesus for help.....
2007-01-14 21:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by lowerthanaslave 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call Madona
2007-01-14 21:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by David 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋