Me 24 & my ex boyfriend Gemini 28, were seeing each other for over 6 months on and off as my ex has been so indecisive about a relationship typical gemini! but everyday together was great mentally stimulating, Intellectual & fun! we gelled right from the start. But I decided to move on as he was to fickle and indecisive. We broke up around 4 weeks ago and I haven't contacted him as I am not the possessive type. My ex has been calling and emailing me since from work and said to me last week that he misses me, not only as a lover but friend. He misses someone to talk to & liaise with. He came to see me last week, was trying to get close to me etc, but still doesn't know what he wants saying things like "lets see how it goes". So I told him that I am giving things ago with this other guy and that we should both move on & then only this Monday he tried to ask me if I fancied coming round for dinner. I told him I would get back to him. What do you think?
2007-01-14 20:51:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
May 23rd, my B-day. A constant battle takes place inside of us. We can be quick with an answer but may not be how we truly feel, that's why we are so indecisive, we constantly think things over and over again and try to decide what is best.
2007-01-14 21:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Larry R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a gemini but I have to say this should not just be looked at as a astrological thing. guys or people in general all fit the same mold if it's vague enough.
I'll concede there can be some general associations attributed to geminis but i view that as a guide not an absolute. But if you really want to look at this from an astrological aspect are the signs compatible? (shows you how much I know about astrology) I find I like to be stimulated as much as stimulating and what holds my interest is light, life and challenge of my mate. She's always trying to surprise me in ways I didn't even think about. And when she started doing things.... well let me put it to you this way. In life we all have some kind of "list." In some form or fashion we have an expectation of what we want. When she came and started doing things or brought things to the table I forgot to add or that weren't even on my list I knew she was the one. Because she completed me in areas I didn't even realize I was lacking. Now I can't see life without her.
That's what I think. But whether you attribute that to a astrological sign or an individual is up to you.
You could always try and be friends but if you've moved on it will just be painful. And not because he's a gemini but because a person who lost something doesn't want to be reminded of failure.
2007-01-14 21:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a Gemini to the heart. We are indecisive cause we don't like being wrong. So at times we would rather be in the middle instead of making a decision that way we are not dissappointed either way the outcome happens.
2007-01-14 20:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Esoteric 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to completely ignore everything that astrology tells you and think for yourself. People more often than not don't match up with their astrological profile much at all and I'm one of those people. Use your previous experiences with him to judge his personality. If you want see if you can get back together with him then give him a shot. If you want to move on then firmly tell him no. You should decide this for yourself and not use Yahoo Answers as a means to ask others to decide your feelings for you.
2007-01-14 21:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Frank Edwards 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to Move Forward* You're only 24yrs old and you KNOW what you want out of life..your 28yr old gemini obviously doesn't. I was married to a gemini and left him 6yrs ago. Don't give him the time of day anymore girl.......MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND LIVE LIFE or you'll be asking this question in 5yrs from now "Why didn't i leave him back then?"
2007-01-15 06:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
...I know all Gemini men & women to be very diffiult people to deal with; they lie, very indisive about relationships, mood swings are terrible and just overall not a good date and I almost forgot they are jealous and controlling people. I think you should just move on as you previously stated or if you do go to dinner with this guy he will have control of you again unless you put your player attitude on... by the way what is your zodiac sign. Gemini people usually match best with the Tarus and Leo...those are both controlling signs as well.
...that's my thought on that... GOOD LUCK
2007-01-14 21:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by momview 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ah well, i have not an openion, since i am not a man......but any way 2 points to me! :)
2007-01-14 20:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋