i don't know if i want to be with my man anymore he makes me misserable,been togethor 6 years.?

Answer 1

This is written in the Hebrew Talmud, the book
where all of the sayings and preaching of
Rabbis are conserved over time.
It says: "Be very careful if you make a woman
cry, because God counts her tears. The woman
came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be
walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but
from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be
protected, and next to the heart to be loved."

Answer 2

First off, you need to work out exactly what makes you so miserable, could it be something that he can change, and you can fix over time. Or is it something bad enough to leave him, and start over again? 6 years is a long time to pick up and go but if you are not in love with him anymore, then there's no point dragging it out, for his sake. Let him know how you feel, be honest and prepared, so you don't just end up having a big fight, and not accomplishing anything. I'd suggest writing everything you need to say down before hand, so you don't lose track, and don't forget anything. Whatever you do, don't just cheat on him because it's easier, it's cowardly, and so hurtful. Think of a time he didn't make you miserable, and imagine hurting THAT person.Good luck, and hope everything is worked out

Answer 3

Try thinking of all the things you love about him and all the things that drive you mad. Usually the good stuff out-weighs the bad. Maybe talking to him about how you feel might help. He's maybe feeling bad too. Sometimes it's the circumstances that are making a person unhappy but it's easier to focus on faults in our partners. There's always councelling! Good luck!

Answer 4

If he makes you that miserable you need to leave him and move on. I know that will be difficult after six years together but you only get one life and need to make sure you enjoy it! Discuss with friends and family - it will be a difficult decision to reach but if you do decide to leave or stay - you need to be sure it's the right decision for you. Good luck.

Answer 5

If he makes you miserable ask yourself why? Is it boredom,lack
of money, poor sex life etc., Sit down. Write down the pros and
cons and imagine your life without him. Ask yourself why you
stay together. Above all - TELL HIM. Does he feel the same
way as you? If so - kiss goodbye. Move on. Be Happy.

Answer 6

move on life is to short when you are happy and too long when you are misserable. you deserve better good luck

Answer 7

Misery loves Company!! And you may not be in love with him anymore..you may just be use to him. All relationships go through there ups and downs. But if you find yourself starting to look, its time to move on.

Answer 8

If your not happy then leave or talk to him about why your unhappy.
Maybe youv'e lost that loving feeling for him and your stuck in a rut. I suggest move on.

Answer 9

The question is why does he make you miserable.

Are you miserable, or does he make you miserable?

There is a difference.

If he makes you miserable, then you say, "you make me miserable when you-------------, and if you continue I will have to protect myself by either leaving or both of us going to seek counselling, you have one week to give me an answer".

If he chooses counselling , make sure you place a dead line. "if we haven't seen acounsellor by 2 weeks, then I am going to have to leave, in order to live a healthier life".

If you are miserable by nature, then maybe you should find out why you are miserable by seing a counsellor by yourself.


Hope this helps.

Answer 10

If your not happy get out dont settle for second best wen ur soulmate is out there go find him