2007-01-14 19:19:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women have problems with realizing their mistakes too.
2007-01-14 19:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm first of all failure to realize mistakes is not reserved JUST for the male species. Your mistake in posting this question is failing to describe the situtation that made you want to pose this question so we have a clear definition of what you define as "mistake."
Because if you are going to ask a question in a vacuum and expect a decent answer.... well maybe the problem doesn't lie with the male species. Perhaps it lies with YOU.
Realizing mistakes, or the time it takes to realize the mistake is based upon INDIVIDUALS not gender.
And one other thing, if a guy may have difficulty articulating a point or chooses NOT to articulate a point does not necessarily mean he's wrong.
2007-01-15 03:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it takes them long to realise their mistakes. I feel it is more a case of admitting they are wrong that is the hard part for them. Having said that though it is not only men but also a lot of women that make mistakes and will not admit them. We all make mistakes, no-one is perfect and we are all guilty of not wanting to accept blame at times.
2007-01-15 06:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there...I think its because males have an ego thing going..its all about pride and we always feel we need to be right, especially in front of our women...its a society thing that we are suppose to be protector/providers and when we make mistakes it says we are less and thus not suitable to be your partners...so the only way we can still feel fit to be the "man" in the family is to never seem like we never make mistakes...In our minds even though we made mistakes we can't let that known to our partners because then we come off as weak. It's weird but its very much true...
2007-01-15 03:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because men have 2 heads to think with and have a difficult time in deciding just exactly what a mistake is.
2007-01-15 03:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dippy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont for the most part, but it depends on the mistakes I guess, in my opinion there is no such thing as a mistake in a partnership, if they know you, then they know full well what they are doing or about to do will hurt you, they are not thinking of you at the time of making the mistake, dont talk your self into how they wont do it again, or they never ment to hurt you, you are worth a hundred times more then that, and there are many more guys out there that will treat you like the star you are!
2007-01-15 03:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men will usually never admit they were wrong, could affect their ego, they don't want others to know so they hide it and refuse to admit it. takes some men a long time to mature. they will only admit a mistake if they are hurt over something, if they are the ones cheated on, and used. that is the only way they are going to see what they did to the other person. but we will never hear it or see it, that is something they keep inside, to reveal it would make them appear weak. would make them have to look deep inside their selves, and account for wrongs, and maybe admit mistakes, when they admit to it, they would have to seek someones forgiveness, which they will never do.
2007-01-15 13:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men rationalize everything they do and they act before thinking through the consequences. Women think through everything, sometimes they over-think through everything. Men do not think like women which is why we make few or no mistakes at all! Besides we're too busy fixing the guys mistakes to have time to make our own.
2007-01-15 06:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us men can be really stubborn at times, but we just need to humble ourselves and realize that no one is perfect. We all make mistakes and sometimes we are our own biggest enemies. Remember when we point our finger at someone else there are three of our own fingers pointing back at us. I have been married now for 11 years and it took alot of bible study and meditation to change my personality for the better. Pride is before a crash the Bible says so being prideful gets us no where. We just need to be honest and admit when we're wrong we're wrong, and make the necessary changes and move on.
2007-01-15 03:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jason W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of men think their right all the time. At the time of their mistakes they are usually in denial. Sometimes they think about the situation and they may come to the conclusion that are wrong and they may apologize. Even really good guys do this.
2007-01-15 03:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋