I had unprotected sex with this guy December 23rd and since then I have been bleeding off and on very lightly occasionally and at first in between bleeding I would have brown discharge with no odor which has stopped now and I have been snacking a lot. I have never been on birth control and I bought a home pregnancy test January 11th and it came back negative but I am thinking it may have been to early to tell. The brown discharge has completely quit now, I do not have an STD. My mom is a certified nurse midwife but I don't want to talk to her about it and worry her. I am only 18. I always begin my period at the end of the month or at least by the first week of the month and didn't. Instead, it was just really light bleeding and spotting. Any suggestions?
2007-01-14 19:09:47 · 33 answers · asked by jasmyn 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
maybe he gave you a christmas present which will be a baby in september. did he explode inside of you?
2007-01-22 08:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you have unprotected sex you run the risk of pregnancy. It may have been too soon to tell on a home test, but you can get a blood test done and it will be able to show up, or wait another week and get another home test.
Brown spotting is sometimes a sign of implantation bleeding, not always, it could be your period is going through a change this month. But the chance is there
I know you don;t want to, but talk to your mother.. not only because she is a nurse but because she is your mom and she can help you through this. Don't go through this scare alone.
2007-01-15 00:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by jzgermany 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar problem once and its no use stressing yourself out about it cause it might actually be nothing.if you havent got an std and the pregnancy test was negative but you're still worried about it being something serious the best thing to do is get in touch with a medical professional who will explore all possibilities that you might not even expect it to be.
Before i got pregnant this time, i had a huge pregnancy scare and was so worried that i think my body started acting up but it turned out that it was nothing and as soon as the nurse told me i wasnt pregnant, the spotting stopped and my period followed a few days later, along with the cramps and cravings.if it turns out that you are pregnant you should really consider talking to your mother, my mum is someone who doesnt show emotion and seems as though she's cold as ice but i know she is the best person to talk to and no matter what she is the only person who will give me the best and honest advise in a crisis.trust me!!
2007-01-22 10:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by amy melanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, we can deal with this. There are ways to find your answer.
First off, unprotected sex...yikes.
Unprotected intercourse can be very dangerous as I am sure you already know and don't need the lecture :)
Now the pregnancy scare, my girlfriend who was pregnant took a home pregnancy test and it came out negative, she took another and it was positive.
Can you get to your doctor or a clinic which holds pregnancy tests? With the home tests, as far as i know, you dont have to be that far along to get the results. There can be false negatives.
You have to see a doctor or take another test. If you do not want to worry your mom, you may want to start the pill and always use protection, for your and your partners sake. I am sure we have all made our mistakes when it came to unprotected sex, maybe this will be a lesson for you.
You are worth protecting.
Take it one step at a time, but get the results your looking for and please be more careful!
2007-01-22 08:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by katy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi jasmin!!!
Please you are way to young, and just had you first menstrual, so I really think you should speak with your mom.
In the future your health is the most important thing. And as much us here at YAHOO answers want to help; we could only guess, it may be this or that!!!
I don't think it is very smart to rely on strangers, for a diagnostic, that could be from a simple infection, to an ovarian cyst or laceration in your inner walls!!!
So my advise is to confide in your mom, she is a professional in this aspect and you couldn't be in better hands.
As much as we here might care for you as a human being, you will never find the love and care of a mother. Be honest and sincere she will give you some motherly advise but is all for your own good and part of growing up!!!
Don't be afraid, but please be careful from now on!!!
GOD BLESS YOU!!! BE CAREFUL!!!! BE HAPPY!!!
ALLIV Z
2007-01-22 17:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the bleeding might just be damage caused by having sex, it happens sometimes. Your snacking could be your outlet for your stress since you are worried about possibly being pregnant. The least you could do is get another test and try at a later date. I recommend getting information on pregnancy just in case, If you and your mother have a good relationship i would recommend talking to her about it even if you are not pregnant. She would be the resident expert, not to mention support.
2007-01-20 07:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by esme_dulce 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though perhaps your periods are a little off this month... although there is always a chance of conception when you have sex... you probably aren't pregnant if you've had a pregnancy test come back negative. Just to be certain that everything is fine though I would schedule an appointment with your Gyn.
2007-01-14 19:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out for certain if you are pregnant or if you have an STD is to see your Gyn and get tested. Speak to your mom. She might be helpful and would probably want to be there for you. I hope everything turns out okay and that this experience will encourage you to practice safe sex from now on. Good luck to you and please be careful out there. Just because someone 'looks clean' doesn't mean he or she is clean.
2007-01-22 09:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon sounds to me like you might be pregnant...I would say you need to get a pregnancy test and have an ultra sound to rule out an ectopic pregnancy. Don't be afraid to talk to your mom, that is what mom's are there for. AND from now on, USE protection. Good Luck sweetie.
2007-01-22 15:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to a clinic and get checked out. Planned Parenthood or the local health nurse are both great places to get checked out. They are cheap, and they won't inform your parents. Be sure to tell the nurse that you think you may be pregnant so they can give you a test.
2007-01-21 15:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Allison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable talking to your mother then you need to talk to someone else and probably see an ob/gyn. There are several things it could be and it may just be nothing. But you should be seen...never put your health (or your potential baby's health) to the side. Good Luck.
2007-01-22 09:13:47 · answer #11 · answered by all_around_tha_mullberri_busch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋