Most of my friends agree that I flirt like crazy with a lot of guys. I honestly don't try to, I just talk to them.
Is there a way of being able to tell if I'm flirting without realizing?
2007-01-14 19:07:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, some people just have a knack at socializing. Maybe it just comes more naturally for you than some of your friends. I wouldn't be suprised to hear that some of the complaints your getting is out of selfish jealousy - perhaps they just feel left out.
I don't know how old you are, but that's what it sounds like. Once you grow past the high school years, that kind of conceded criticism goes away. Unless you're sleeping around like crazy too, don't let that bother you.
2007-01-14 19:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just jealous cause you have a gift for relating to the opposite sex and they don't. They WISH they could talk easily with guys. So they attack you with criticism. Just be yourself, but protect your rep. Don't talk about obvious, slutty stuff. A girl is always labeled as flirting just because she's friendly. The heck with people like that. What, we're all supposed to be on this planet and not talk to each other genuinely as human beings?
2007-01-14 19:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be flirting or your friends could be jealous that you can talk with guys. Just talking to a guy isn't flirting, battering your eyelids, lots of giggling, touching them or getting cosy with them is fllirting. You will realise it.
2007-01-14 19:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, you're getting into foggy section. You both are pals or are not or potentials. you have become the flair type blended up with the friendship. on the top of the day all this creates is confusion and dissatisfied.
2016-10-31 03:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling them,Just because I talk to boys,and try to get along with them ''Does it mean i'm flirting?''.Say that you're just talking to them and trying to socialize.You don't need your friends telling you that you're doing something that doesn't concern themselves!
2007-01-14 19:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by Deanna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of my closest gal friend is just like you. people would always say shes a flirt becoz she can easily get along with the boys. but we know, she's really not and that its her true self and we loved her for that!
don't change. maybe, theyre just jealous becoz of your personality.
2007-01-14 19:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by ---q.ty pie--- 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im the same way. i dont realize im flirting with them till after its done and over with. lol
2007-01-14 19:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha.. u think there is a way.... well its the same thing with me.. i jus wanna talk but my frnds end up telling tht i flirt... ahhh it hpns..
u jus hav to b urself... u njoy talkn, then talk... dont bother what othrs think... be true to yourself....
2007-01-14 19:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by nikita s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to cool it , keep that up and you'll be known as a cheapie and then that's where your problems will start. Be yourself and don't try to pretend to be the person that you're not....
2007-01-14 19:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by pucgato@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll have to meet you to tell you for sure.
2007-01-14 19:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋