i think i hav a gurl... but the problem is, she want to get married after graduation.. the real problem is.. i don have money + i dont think my course will asure me a job...
2007-01-14 19:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by pencinta wanita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just because the other person in the relationship wants to get married after graduation doesn't mean it's the smart thing to do. You said you don't have any money and you have job worries. How long do you think your marriage will last? She is not being realistic and you ARE being a man by being responsible enough to see the obvious impediments to having a successful happy marriage. There is a wise saying that is very true - FAIL TO PLAN, PLAN TO FAIL.
2007-01-14 19:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd wonder if your financial concerns are really the heart of the matter or perhaps you are making an excuse. I wish I knew more about this situation to give you a better answer.
She's not pregnant, is she?
If you put your faith in God the money problems will resolve themselves, but if you really not ready for a life long commitment, then you should wait until you are.
2007-01-15 03:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's pregnant, she has a certain insecure neediness to jump right in to marriage right after graduation. Perhaps in her own world "everyone's doing it" or other such nonsense.
It also sounds like you have insecurity issues as well. "I think I have a girl", well, do you or don't you? You don't have to get married to her just to prove to yourself that you "have" her. In fact, that question, to me, sounds like you don't even know her all that well yet.
Don't be so insecure that someone else can dictate your future against your own sense of judgement. To do that, you have to first develop your own mature sense of judgement.
2007-01-15 03:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by DavID 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't make you marry her tell her you would love to marry her but first you need to make your first million.
2007-01-15 03:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to tell her to find a real man to me!
2007-01-15 03:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by corene D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can give advice but i cant give "advise" you ****** dipshit. get off of this ****** site moron.
2007-01-15 03:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Rotten Egg Farts Smell Delicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋