I wanna go to the movies with this guy friend of mine. I'm 14 now and i've known him since i was 5. People always say "oh you two like eachother are you going out?" He gets kinda embarressed about that. I call him a lot, without calls in retyrn as he never has credit, but i wanna go to the movies with him. Should i ask him? Do you think he'll get weirded out and be lyk, "no" or do you think he'll accept. I just don't want him to think i lyk him more than a friend. What do you think?
2007-01-14 18:51:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just go and have fun
2007-01-14 18:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this is your first movie together? You also mentioned that he has no credit yet? I don't think there are credit card companies out there who loans people under 18, but you are doing a great job for seeking advice before you go out with him. There's nothing wrong if you ask him but be prepared to be neglected if he thinks it's weird because of what other people might think. This is part of learning. I also would like to suggest that you bring extra cash just in case he does not have enough cash to cover the pop corn and soda. I mean seriously! You will save a lot of headaches and embarassment if you can save yourself from this type of crisis.
To score this plan of your: Make the invitation as "friend" and work your way up. What's the difference if you are not expecting something after the movies. That would be a different story, right? Just be cool and be safe. You have a lot to learn and life ahead of you.
2007-01-15 03:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Friv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him the question - Say, ............ we have known each other for 5 years do you think we can take in a movie together without the whole world getting the wrong idea? I'd really like to see ......... but I don't want to go by myself.
2007-01-15 03:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by scottyusa1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh heck - just ask him out. Enjoy yourselves. If you've known him for so long it should be ok. At worst, I'm guessing you're close enough to get past any awkwardness that might ensue.
So go for it and have fun.
-dh
2007-01-15 02:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him without giving him a hint that you like him more than a friend. ask him the way you ask him about usual things. you two were friends for 9 years, i think he'll never suspected you.
2007-01-15 02:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by ---q.ty pie--- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allright let me hit you up with some knowledge..
sure to work..at least 60% of the time..everytime
put on some like..i dont know..george harrison I got my mind set on you...or something song doesn't really matter. and do the peanut butter jelly dance to it. but if that doesn't work..see what movies he likes and suggest that you guys go see it. High five!
2007-01-15 03:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by Zac P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a movie that you both really want to see and say "hey, we should see this one together." If you are friends, he shouldn't think much about it.
2007-01-15 02:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by MsCantBeWrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to go as just friends or a better idea is bring some friends with you and say..."hey im bringin some friends to the movies, do you want to meet us up their and just hang out?"
it will work
2007-01-15 02:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think lyk u need lyk to lyk go lyk to the lyk movies or whatever and lyk suck his thingy! lyk ok?
2007-01-15 02:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Rotten Egg Farts Smell Delicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you like him or dont? im confused
anyways..just go. who cares what people think? if he gets weirded out, confront him and tell him to stop being such a stuck up baby.
2007-01-15 02:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck you have known him this long, go ahead and call him..
2007-01-15 02:56:28 · answer #11 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋