If two people that are best friends of 1yr that fall in love and her spouse is a drug addict and his spouse has been openly been having a sexual affair with an ex for 2yrs. and both couples had tried marriage and religious counciling. with no luck. Would it be wrong it the two friends that fell in love to start having a sexual affair until they both have enough money for a divorce?
2007-01-14 18:45:33 · 21 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do whatever makes you happy.
2007-01-14 18:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i guess they ought to go ask their spouses in the journey that they imagine having an affair isn't any large deal. it type of feels because they instructed you their not non secular that having an affair is an excuse it isn't. faith is a good commence, yet per chance you should ask them about LOVE and believe in the journey that they have got any MORALS. appearing on lust may have lengthy and lasting repercussions. Ask them how they could experience if their spouses replaced into having an affair at the back of their again? they truly do not want you to present them with a good argument adverse to mendacity and dishonest, reason they already recognize. it truly is a experience of proper and incorrect aspect both they respect themselves and their spouses or they don't...
2016-11-23 19:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by pfeifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, adultery is clearly defined. If you were two mature adults, you would wait.
If she is willing to cheat on her husband with you (and vice versa) than who is say that either one of you will not cheat again when the two of you are eventually married?
You either have respect for the institution of marriage, or you don't.
2007-01-14 19:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
No matter what the circumstances, cheating is cheating. Also, ask yourselves if you'd be attracted to one another if your respective lives weren't drama central.
End the relationships; don't create another mess until you've cleaned up the first one.
2007-01-14 20:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any affair is wrong. if the marriage is really that bad, then you should get out of it. but remember you vowed to be with him through the thick and the thin.
2007-01-14 20:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by young grown man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Separate first, otherwise you are just as guilty as the other parties. Divorce costs money, but a legal separation is easier to achieve with little cost.
2007-01-14 18:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get the divorce 1st.If your wife is a drug addict then she needs rehab. If the other ladies husband has been cheating and he catches a disease then his wife might get it and give it to you. Life can be so cruel but dont stoop to its level.lso , if you have to ask us then you know it is wrong.
2007-01-14 18:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat19582002 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong to have an affair during a marriage, YES. n
2007-01-14 19:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your question smart guy... WOULD THIS AFFAIR BE WRONG? All affairs are wrong get a divorce!
2007-01-14 18:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by corene D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
falling in love is not wrong, especially for the right guy. but you need to settle the problem first or another problem will lead to another.
try to solve the first one firsts, to avoid lot of troubles
2007-01-14 19:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by labs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it. what have you two been waiting for. Your "spouses" seem to be living for themselves, so do what makes you happy. Sounds so screwed up right now that a few more problems ain't going to matter.
2007-01-14 18:55:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋