Many factors come into play once two people are married. Certain benefits are shared. Does suddenly sharing finances, responsibilities, and a common bond by law ruin the love that was there first?
2007-01-14 18:40:56 · 18 answers · asked by Alexis K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In some cases, probably, and in others probably not. Here's the deal. With marriage and sharing finances, assuming more responsibility, there ultimately will be episodes of stress. does that kill the initial love? First of all, in the beginning of relationships, the lust you feel turns to love, then if you get married, I believe a deeper love happens. You have someone else to depend on, to help your financial future grow, a partner in many more ways than just marriage.....a support system. I am a firm believer that both husband and wife should still maintain a separate account, even if only minimal amounts, some say no, but I believe that you should always maintain your independence in some ways, and not be totally reliant on any one person ever.
2007-01-14 22:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe so. It all depends on you and what and how important marriage is to you.. People really need to know that marriage is not a joke. Marriage is To death do you part.. though the good and bad, sickness and in health. If you married that person because you believed in these vows then it should never ruin love.
2007-01-14 18:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by ompie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't kill the love you have for each other. And by that I mean the unconditional love that made you realize that you wanted to get married in the first place.
It does however throw a lot of obstacles your way that, if you haven't thought things all the way through, and if you make the wrong decisions, can kill your marriage. Sometimes relationships change after marriage, but no, the love never really dies.
2007-01-14 19:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ambrose Bierce wrote a book called "The Devil's Dictionary" where he defined love as temporary insanity cured by marriage.
I once subscribed to that notion, but realized that marriage of two people making the right choice backed up with an extraordinary amount of lust, sex, desire and sensuality ought to take care of the worldly issues.
2007-01-14 18:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm still in the midst of my own marriage: too early to tell. But I can tell you that I think a good team shares common goals and strives to overcome common obstacles at any cost, and that a good marriage should be like a well- coordinated team.
2007-01-14 18:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by AntiDisEstablishmentTarianism 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love between a husband and wife does not usually stay in the "honeymoon" period. The love evolves into a love on a higher level. You feelings deepen for your mate over time.
2007-01-14 22:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so well known. What happened in africa centuries ago is not something that we see on the front page. Besides, woman to woman couples could not have children. How could they create a family ?
2016-03-14 06:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it actually makes it stronger. being married to someone helps you two become stronger because you have to do a lot as a team. once that bond is created, the love grows.
2007-01-14 20:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by young grown man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a broad question.....but I would say "no".
2007-01-14 18:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but it does ruin the carefree 'love' that you think you knew in high school.
2007-01-14 18:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋