I've been with this guy for about 3 months. I am really falling head over heels for him. I think I've found LOVE!!! I've madeout with him. Recently I let him finger me. I've had my hands down his pants but have not went any farther. Should I keep going??
2007-01-14 17:50:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 13 but I think I love him
2007-01-14 18:07:00 · update #1
Make your own decisions. Do YOU think you're ready? Do you understand the consequences of those actions? IF the unthinkable were to happen, would you want to father his child?
Don't rely on Y!A. You're gonna get both extremes.
Edit: I agree with many of the last posts; 13 is far too young to be in 'love.'
This is difficult to say... but here it goes...
Having sex is not showing someone you love them. You shouldn't have to 'prove' it. Sex is, at it's lowest level, reproduction. It creates chemical signals which make many people feel euphoric (a type of happy), which is then mislabeled as love.
2007-01-14 17:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should do some more research first. Find out about all the consequences and maybe read about how to turn someone on. What he did to you is cool when you are 13 but in reality doesnt feel so good. You should go further when it feels right not because of any rules.
2007-01-14 17:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by melvinbenjamin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex yet!!! You are too young to even do the under the clothes touching stuff. Make out, cop a feel on top of the clothes but slow down. Sex does not make you a woman, in fact if you are smart enough not to have sex, you are much smarter. Cool your jets!
2007-01-14 18:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP IT!! you are ONLY 13..you should be thinking abt ur classes and ur future than sex..if you cannot wait till u turn 18 then atleast wait till u r in high school..u r a kid...you should be worried abt ur studies rather than sex AND LET ME TELL YOU U ALREADY WENT TOO FAR!!! BACK UP...
2007-01-14 18:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez. I'd slow down. Love isn't just all the lusty stuff. You've gotta step back and evaluate your relationship. Would you love him if all the physical stuff was cut out? Do you love being around him? Does he make your stomach lurch just by seeing his face? Just don't do anything you'd regret later. I'd stop right where you are.
2007-01-14 17:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by iluvatm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
You have been with him only 3 months. You're going too fast for a love relationship. You sleep with him now, he will be gone.
If you want more than sex, delay it.
Has he said how he feels about you?? Have you talked at all about what you both want from this?
2007-01-14 17:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tara662 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're just 13.. then it's not love yet.. you're still a child who needs guidance from your parents, and i am sure you still cannot handle to be a parent at the age of 14 or 15.
it answers to your question.. stop or you'll be sorry!
2007-01-14 19:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by labs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on your other question a while ago you're what, 13? 14?
I think you've gone quite far enough already.
2007-01-14 18:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your a child... you are not in love... love isn't what you think it is.... be a kid don't grow up to fast enjoy your life... You are a baby what are you doing to yourself.. why are our children thinking of sex now? you really need to tell your parents you are thinking of having sex and are doing sexual acts, this way here they can knock so sense into your head...........
2007-01-14 19:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by ompie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you are 13 and you got fingured, way too fast!!
Hold on, relax, and if you **** him, you'll loose your so called love as fast as you have got him. Trust me.
2007-01-14 18:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Shiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋