we've been together for five years and two kids.
2007-01-14 17:41:33 · 13 answers · asked by ms.hicks23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In most states, you are already common law married.
2007-01-14 17:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already have children together and have been together for 5 years...why not get married? It's going to be harder as you both get older only because of the age gap, but anything can be worked through with love.
2007-01-14 17:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if u really love him and the same for him it will last just look at me and my husband im 23 and he is 35 and we have been together since i was 15 and got married at 17 and we still love each other Good Luck
2007-01-14 17:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by kidi_69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at all of the people the same age getting split up. I don't think the age makes any diffference. My guy is 23 years younger than me and we are awesome together. Go for it if you are in a happy healthy relationhip!
2007-01-14 17:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it works for ya, so be it. However, I have a couple friends who are 15 and 20 years older than their husbands with health problems. They are having to run them to the dr's and hosp's all the time. Oh well that's what vows are for. One of their husband is only 70... n
2007-01-14 18:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,i am married to my husband for seven yrs,and he's seventeen years older than me,we also have to kids together.the good thing about being married to someone older is that u know that they're more muture,and u wanna believe that they're settled.but sometimes it tends to get a little out of hand with the jealousy,well for me that is.and the sex sucks for me,its been 3 weeks and this man is always tired,if u agree with this older person,make sure and buy him alot of vitamins...Good luck
2007-01-14 20:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by lovegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have kids, they should have a 2 parent family. big age difference is tough especially as both age. if one is 20 now and the other 40, bad enough but when one is 40 unreal
2007-01-14 17:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well at this point being that you have kids together and all...age shouldnt be an issue...but as long as yall are happy with eachother and marriage is what you want to do then go for it....
2007-01-14 17:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by michele m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't mind taking care of him while he's retired long before you are able to. If you are both on the same page and happy I guess it's cool.
2007-01-14 17:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is to old for you,are the kids his if so then give them a name.
2007-01-14 17:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋