I've been in a long distant relationship for the past 5 years...I'm in love with her. and yesterday I found out that she was cheating with a gaycoworker. we talked all night last night and she was saying she was sorry and that she wanted to still be with me. and that she didnt want to be with her and it was her being curious about women.questioning her she has been seeing her for months. Today when i talked to her, her story was still the same she wanted to be with me and was in love with me. but she thought it was best to be friends. I was hurt and crying so i said fine you want to be with her she consistantly said no i want to be by myself. so i called her later tonight and the girl picks up the phone and was saying **** about her being her girlfriend now and that she doesnt want to be with me and hangs up.3 times i called back, then my now exgirl answers and says she wants to be with her cause she. I gave up my family and medical school 4 her I have revenge in my heart. what to do
2007-01-14 17:07:00 · 4 answers · asked by CONFUSSED 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
5 years is a long time to be in a loyal and trustworthy long distance relationship and it requires disciplin too. And human beings are bound to make mistakes like this despite the consequences in this case, her loosing your love beccause she has to take care of her hormonal needs. Many years ago this kind of relationship would have functioned perfect but times have changed and people are more experimental. I think you should take time to heal before you could move on to the next relationship and you will always find your bliss.
2007-01-14 17:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by walubengo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl. She obviously does not care about you. Do not take revenge out on her. She is the slut who did you wrong, do not stoop to her level. Go back to school or get a great job. Later down the road when you are a sucessful doctor or whatever you do she will still be a slut and you will have found someone who can treat you right and will be a better person for not stooping to her skanky level.
2007-01-15 01:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by vamp_of_jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to start off with.. i know you were in love but know its time to move on. since it was a long distant relationship it makes it easier for you to not see her, and you need to let that motivate you! what you should do now is win your family back, go to medical school and forget about the things you had and let love find you again.. good luck!
2007-01-15 01:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by samson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rejection is hard and it happens.
call this for what it is and make a point to move on.
whether it is deserved or not,
please do not allow the bitterness of your heart
do what you might later come to regret.
view it as a life experience and concentrate on
being the best person you can be for yourself.
when you regain your confidence,
then search for the love of your life.
good luck.
2007-01-15 02:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋