he's ALWAYS wanted a lap dance. I'm not shy about my body or anything, i just think i might feel like a retard stripping to music and stuff. Am i being silly, should I just do it, I want to so bad, but i'm kinda shy. As a guy, would you think it was corny, you know, the whole routine? Am i putting too much though into this?
2007-01-14 16:37:51 · 13 answers · asked by Hannah A 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
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2007-01-14 16:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your husband, he would be totally flattered and that is a good thing. I know exactly how you feel about the weird feeling of stripping to music in your own home, with your husband etc. Maybe have a little wine would break the hesitation. I envy you, I think you should GO FOR IT!!! I miss my husband...sometimes! WE did stuff like that, and he LOVED IT. and I had already had two children....and my body wasn't great! I heard once that even the largest women are sexy if they aren't self-conscience and just be themselves. He thought or at least my husband said that I was the "sexiest woman alive" . Saying those words to me, he could just about get anyting he wanted. Very sexy thing to say to a woman, don't ya think? Also, No I dont' think he would think it is corny at all. But you know him better than anyone. If he has always wanted it honey. He would adore you for it! OH PLEASE come on and let meknow if you do and his reaction. I guarantee he will be thrilled!~!!!
2007-01-14 16:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by acytraobynsda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to watch my husband get a lap dance. Now I just get them. Sorry about the Star War cartoons. My ex-husband preferred the exact same thing over lap dances. I guess Darth is more appealing. *Sigh, for both of us*
2016-03-28 22:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should do it....I think you should go all out. Get an outfit and come up with a little routine to a song that is sexy.
The more confident you feel the less silly you'll feel when it comes down to it. Go for it girl....he more than likely like it just because its you.
2007-01-14 16:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you go to a strip club with him - or alone - either way you can get a good idea of how to give a lap dance. Another option would be to go in and pay for one - most girls at strip clubs prefer women and if you explain what you're trying to do - they might even give you lessons in their free time. .
Good luck
2007-01-14 16:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hannah
how very cool for you to want to do this for him. I would be electrified if my girlfriend would do that for me because she too is very shy about such things ....... having said that .....just go for it..... and have fun with it .....get a pitcher of 'Rita's... have a few yourself along with the old man and get it on...use the song by Joe Cocker entitled "you can leave your hat on" and do exactly what the song says to do...... get up on the chair and do it right girl, you will be hot..... make it fun for you and him both ..... I will guarantee he will absolute love it to death ..... what a cool woman you are to be so thoughtful and so shy about it ......that will be an extra turn on for him as he will realize what it took for you to do that for him ..... must be a damn nice guy to be so lucky.
2007-01-14 16:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by doc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Carmen Electra has a series out called "Aerobic Striptease" I bought it a few months ago and it really helps boost confidence about *egh ehhmmmm* dancing for your guy.
I would try doing that...
Confidence is going to be your sexiest attribute so just get up and have fun....he'll love it!
2007-01-14 16:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with all the others. Hannah, what a wonderful wife you are for wanting to do this for him. Let go of the inhibitions, put on some fun music and go for it. Neither of you will forget it.
2007-01-15 12:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Bob T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would give you both another experience to share togeher....it could be very romantic, and very interesting for you both...he might love it, he might chuckle a little, but either way, its your husband, the man you are going to spend the rest of your life with,,,,u are going to have goofy times toether, embarrsing times together, and new sexy experiences together... i would go for it... why not!
2007-01-14 16:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should do it turn him on give it to him for a birthday or anvirsery
2007-01-14 16:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Baseballfreak4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋