She works at a store I go into a lot. I've heard she's gay and I have noticed that she does tend to be kind of flirty with me, my female friends and lots of other female costumers. One night I let it slip to my friends that I thought she was hot and like a week later when we went to that store again one of my friends told me to give the girl a letter that she had written her asking her out. I was a little mad at my friend for asking me to do this since I kind of had a crush on her. I gave it to the girl anyway. Then when my friends asked me if I gave it to her they started cracking up and said that they put my name on it. I've worn work shirts with my name on them a few times so I was worried that she knew my name and such...now whenever I go in there she smiles at me more and is kind of always standing near me. I don't know what to say to her. I'm kind embarassed by what my friends did...I'm also shy and a bit scared. What do I do? What do I say?
2007-01-14 16:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
At this point, just go with it! If you are unsure of what is in the letter and what they really did, the best way to recover is to just smile back and say "hi!" Start some kind of conversation and see where it goes.
2007-01-14 16:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like her or have a crush on her maybe you should get to know her a little better. If not, maybe you should just try to tell her you are not interested or not say anything to her.
2007-01-15 00:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Angelofmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to go out with the girl? If so then talk to her and ask her out -or just keep being friendly and letting it go somewhere. If you don't, then just avoid the store for awhile and let it blow over.
2007-01-15 00:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by I_am_me___ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
continue on with your normal routine. since you've already asked her out through the trick your friends did to you, then all you have to do is wait, or tell her in person that you want to go out.
2007-01-15 00:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. She'll love your honesty!
2007-01-15 00:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by chiefredwater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you waiting for?make the first move
2007-01-15 00:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by skyrus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a shot..
2007-01-15 01:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by vincent m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become straight
2007-01-15 00:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋