why does it hurt?

Question

for a girl when she has her first time? Is the pain unbearable and how long is it until it's just pleasurable and it doesn't hurt anymore?

does it hurt for everyone

Answer 1

it basically hurts b/c you're stretching out muscles that have never been stretched out before.
no, the pain wasn't unbearable.
i found it pleasureable my 2nd time (the next day).

if you're really worried, you can try stretching the vagina out over a few days. start by sticking 1 full finger in there (yours). then the next day try his. then the next day try two of yours, and so on. like some others said, it will help if you're turned on first, for lubrication. or you could use KY jelly or Astroglide. :)

Answer 2

There is a thin membrane called the hymen stretched across the vaginal opening. This is torn the first time you have sex, hence the pain and bleeding. Itonly hurts for a few seconds, nothing to worry about. The pain is not unbearable just a little sharp tug, only lasts for a few seconds.
Hope this helps answer your question.

Answer 3

my pain was bad enough that it hurt overnight. It helps to use lubrication (I didn't know that and found out the hard way) but after the first few times it gets better...Love has a way of making the physical really good...Being married i can say that I wish I would have waited for my husband but I wouldn't change my life for what it is...

Answer 4

In fact, I would say if you have a generous and patient foreplay it should not hurt the first time. If she is forced or it is done in a hurry, then it is bound to hurt even if it is the 1000th time. So the key is to have sufficient foreplay..Good luck

Answer 5

yes it hurts, but only for a few minutes, and it is important for the male to be slow and gentle. the pain comes from the breaking of the hymen.

Answer 6

Cause you are "popping your cherry"